Is it normal i won't give him another chance?
So this guy and I had a little fling back in high school. Years later, we reconnected. I still liked him a lot, we always have good conversation along with our chemistry. Finally, he came to visit. It was horrible.
First of all, this man showed up to my home smelling like cow pies and Holister cologne. He had horrible personal hygiene. Not only is this a pet peeve of mine, but it was so bad that he left a stench on my leather couch that would not come off with anything. The stench was that of pure fecal matter. Shit. Not balls, or butt sweat, but feces. It was absolutely disgusting. I tried Clorox wipes, Lysol wipes, febreze..I even tried masking it with freaking maple syrup and nothing worked.
I decided to slice up a clementine since the smell of citrus fruit is quite strong. I rubbed the baby orange all over the spot. I let it sit overnight. That was the only thing that worked. I mean, seriously. You're a grown man, why can't you wash your ass properly?
On top of the b.o, his breath was foul as well. Not only that, but he was aggressive with me. He kissed my neck and chest forcefully. When I would turn in the direction of where he put his lips, I could smell his saliva and my stomach would turn.
I had to make up an excuse to get him to leave.
I like him as a person, but physically I just don't think I can do it. I am so turned off by the thought of him, but he's a really good guy..
I mean, am I shallow? What do you guys think?