Is it normal if i would consider giving up a baby because of gender?

Because you implied you would give up your child depending on their gender and you already lost your first kid I conclude you would be a shit parent and should not have kids. It's clear you only want a daughter to fulfill your own needs which will only destroy them. Please get fixed as it is the responsible thing to do.

Yeah, no. You have zero business being a parent. Get a doll.

No mean comments? Maybe you should try not being a nasty piece of shit then.

Not normal. I kinda get where you're coming from but I've always thought of it this way:
If you have a son and some day have a daughter she will have a big brother who will care for her & they'll have banter and laugh and grow up to be so close.
My older brother is so special to me in that way.

I am realizing I am unhappy with the cynical hateful person I am becoming so I will start with apologizing to you. I suppose it made me think that you said you cried for 2 hours because of my comments. I don't like that is in me anymore and want to work on being helpful in more positive ways, which will take me some work.
I do have serious issues with some people parents and there is stuff that made me have the opinions I have and I am aware of that.
I have decided to work on being more positive and thank you for helping my with my epiphany as I have been having many of them lately.
In the future try not to let people get you down easily. It will only cause issues for you. I suggest perhaps seeking some therapy for your own experiences and working on yourself if you truly want children. Don't raise them to be like me.

I can understand your want to have a certain gender. There's nothing wrong with that. I've always felt like I'd like to have a girl if I ever had a child. It's probably much worse for you considering you already had a girl before. It probably doesn't mean much coming from an internet stranger, but I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I can't even imagine how painful that must have been.

All that being said, I really do not think it would be normal for you to give up your baby because it's not the gender you wanted. That's pretty extreme to me. Even though you may not think so right now, you would probably regret giving up your child later on. Just think about if your child ever decided to meet you one day and how difficult it would be to explain to them why you decided to give them up...

Alternatively, If you have the money, you CAN choose your baby's gender. Scientists have known how to do this for some time now. Ignoring the cost and whether it's ethical or not, the morality of this approach is arguably way better... Maybe give it some thought?

Do what you want, but there are other people who have the same problem your not the only one you can research it and read their stories some wanted boys some wanted girls and are extremely disapointed seems most wanted girls from the time I was having a read but they have stories of some never feeling a connection that they thought they would and feeling disconnected or some are fine after they hold they baby.

See if you can get yourself aborted.

People like you shouldn't have babies.

I voted yes because the kid would have a better life getting adopted. What if your hypothetical daughter doesn't want to be your personal dress-up doll?

Nope either gender is just fine. My moms pregnaunt she wanted a girl and his having a boy. She was not hally at first but now i really happy. It doesnt matter the gender. I have a friend who wanted a girl and got a girl and got a boy. Now the boy is older and she says she wishes she could have ten more boys. She said she wanted to have a girl because she knew about girls. But she learned so much from having a boy.

If it's a boy you can have its dick & balls snipped off by the doctor and raise it as a girl.

Love your child for what gender it is ffs. My mom's sister only had 4 boys but you don't see her complaining about it.

I know a few couples who had either several boys or several girls against what they actually wanted so I think it's fine to selectively abort. What's the alternative,actually have 5-6 kids and hate most of them? In more backwards countries they kill the baby when it's born so I think changing attitudes is #1 and allowing abortions is #2

Why the fuck do people get off on making othera feel like sh?t. God i wish i had nembutal

What if your mother had the same mentality, but wanting a boy? You wouldn't be here. So if you exist, you are not entitled to take someone else's life thinking like this. You seem to have very preconceived notions and this is bad. If you want a kid, get a kid, and take care of them just in the way they are. You do not have the right of deciding what kind of kid to have or their gender. That was not given to humans as a form of power, we are not meant to handle that.

Nope...