Is it normal if im waiting til college to have a real social life?

I'm already in college but community yet I feel like this isnt real college life. A true college experience in my eyes is to go away from home, live in the dorms , meet new people, party like youll never be able to party again, and yeah study your a** off but its the same in community depending what classes you take. Because of my lack of confidence I didnt think any university would accept me on top of how much I hate rejection so I didnt apply except to one by my house "just in case" but I knew I wouldnt go there even tho I got accepted because Id have to live in my house and like I said before, thats not really the college experience. What sucks is pple with a lower status than me got in some universities I didnt think Id get in so I kept hitting myself after I realized that. With that being said, I dont consider to be in college officially until I transfer but f*ck I better not stay there all long like people usually do or else Im dropping out! But doesnt get me what I really want :/