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So I was having sex with my girlfriend and while I was inside her I got an Un-boner. Im not sure she noticed it but it was still wierd. Is this normal?
The thing about sex for guys is that it is a mind game... when u are young and new to sex it easy to get aroused... but as u get older and used to it or your mind get messed up with some kinda bad experience or stress, it affects your erection easily... for guys u have to be there fully mentally and emotionally other wise u may have pressure failure...
maybe you were thinking about something els while doing it and "kinda forgot" you're having sex. kinda like day dreaming.
It's funny how none of you know what you're talking about. It's extremely common and very normal. Despite what most uneducated retarded judgmental women think, erections can be very particular and depend on many things including your psche. If you have other things on your mind or are stressed out it can easily cause erectile dysfunction which is a very normal and common occurrence, despite ignorant women and their love to make you feel bad for it. Women just simply do not understand anything about erections or the penis.
Make sure you take a leak before sex. Somtimes my babe jumps on my morning glory when its like a rock and I loose it simply cus I want a leak first thing in the morning after which it goes down and then it goes back up when she gets hold of it. Normal service is resumed. Lafe it off and get down on her.
I'm a female and even I know it happens to guys once and awhile if they are stressed or have a lot on their mind. Not all women are ignorant like above mentioned.
That shouldn't happen :/ Time to start rolling out the viagras w00t w00t
It happened to me once, then i realised i was actually thinking of something else. Oops.
we both just laughed and went again
I've had this problem too, I put it down to just not really being in the mood as much as first thought, or being tired perhaps
If that happened during the first or second round, then it's a problem, but if that happened after many rounds, you shouldn't be worried, you most probably were so damn tired.
I've had this before to be fair but usually BJ :]
BJ's always get me hard ;]
Keep it "up'' there son, lol.
Just think of OTHER MEN'S BONERS next time you have sex with her.
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I think I can relate to what you're saying, I've lost my boner while in the moment...but not actually while *in* the....you know what..anyways ways seeing how iv'e had a similar situation i dont think anythings wrong with you since im sure you can still have sex without this happening right?
Happens to me sometimes. I'm only 26 BTW. It sucks but I don't worry about it too much. My wife like morning sex but I just can't finish in the morning. I just go at it till she is done and every now and then I'll get off. Other wise we will have a quickie on my lunch break or that same night and I'm fine! Happened when I was getting over being sick one time and another time when the chicks husband started testing her, I didn't know she was married :/ totally normal, just don't worry about it and it shouldn't cause any problems. Play with it and eat her out a little bit when you think it's going down. I find it easier to get back in the game if I get my mind off my limping dick, lol. And just think about something else. Like BOOBIES!
well in the pornos you take it out and smack it a few times on her vagina and stick it back in. So it must be normal since they do in in the pornos too.
Had that experience, but only when she pissed me off during the act. She made it worse by going ..."wtf!! how can you go limp on me? something wrong with you?"....that did it!
Tell her.to hold your cock inside her if your hard on is a bit weak you shoud gently nip the base of your dick this increases the blood presure inside and stops the erection weakening if you got a foreskin hold it back and nip the base you dicks head will swell and feel super great
those things happen... maybe you're stressed. Maybe your couple have some problems. Maybe she should suck more...
happens to me too sometimes, specially after periods of intense sex activity.
We are missing important info, did you have a tactical wank or shoot your load in the minutes prior to flacidity?
Did you finish too early? Did she disgust you? Otherwise you might have a blood pressure problem. In that case, see your doctor.
Rofl at "were you thinking of your grandma on the toilet" I laughed for a while
there's something wrong. if u r sexually attracted to her then that shouldn't happen.
Yes, it is normal! Happened to me on a daily basis.
Some factors I consider on why does it occur is 1) I'm thinking of deadlines at work and for some reason, it creeps up while we're having sex. 2) I'm drunk. 3) I'm hungry and thinking of food. and some other earthly reasons that let my mind out of focus in a split second while I'm having sex. My reason is mostly psychological
However, if your boner doesn't get back try experimenting with organic supplements for your dick. Here are some good references:
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but nevertheless, just free your mind of other things when you're having sex and I'm sure your dick will work just fine, this is to assume that you don't have a medical condition.
GOodluck!
It happens to my husband sometimes, but i don't embarass him!! your GF maybe is the same....
well man did you have any kind of a cold like a head or snot cold because that will do it it did it to me onetime
The words you're looking for is that you "went soft" but you're probably stressed or something important is going on in your life that you can't get your mind off of.
It happens, and yeah, we notice. With my guy, it only happens when he's stressed out with work or school. No worries, it's normal!
Its normal. It happens to me when I use certain condoms. For some reason, the brand of condom and the lube of that brand mixed with vag juice gives the worst smell ever. I loose my wood almost instantly.
That happened to me once I was going in and out then felt like I lost entrust and had entrust at the same time.
hopefully u didn't cum inside her and not notice but that can happen if u get distracted or daze off
it happens... just take a break and start over, you'll get turned on again and you'll be able to carry on
its probable you were out of the moment and you may have gotten distracted you may have not been using a rhythm that stimulated the underside of the head of your ding-a-ling, which is where all the sexual nerves are.
Dude it happens to me sometimes I love my gf nd she's hot! But if I'm stressed or tired I loose the boner :( but don't think bout it cause it will eat u up nd u will never get hard it's just sex think bout all the times u have done it without problems before :)
don't worry as the more enlightened have said there is so much to sex that only a panel of doctors could conclusively determine what this might have been. but as i said don't worry sex is predominately in the head and u might have simple had to much on your mind
It happens to me when I am fucking my wife. She's not really into it and when I notice that my dick goes down. Sometimes when this happens I start thinking about sucking other guys dicks and eating their load and I get hard again.
After she lost interest in sex and I started sucking cock it was sometimes not easy to fuck her. Mostly I just fuck her when I can't hook up with men. I am mostly a cocksucker now
There are a number of possible causes. Drinking alcohol can cause problems with staying hard. You might just not really be attracted to her (anymore); it may be time to move on. You might try thinking of someone else next time, see if that helps. Stress? Did you get distracted? Say you get distracted suddenly, then it starts going down... then you start thinking about it too much, trying to get raging hard again... making it worse and worse. It happens. There are many possibilities, including the obvious... you might be gay.