Is it normal moving to another state to be with husband and his fam?

To be with husband and his family? Is it normal? Parents are 80s now people tell me I shouldn't be leaving them but I've been trying to move out of California for the past 10 years now I finally can but I can't afford to bring them with me to Maryland. We aren't abandoning them we will be visiting at least twice a year.

I lived with them for 30 years so when opportunity for an incredible job presented itself in Maryland in my husband's state where he's from and his family are, I jumped. California isn't for me, many people here are woke and uncivilized. Moving will make me so happy, every time I visit Maryland people are much more intelligent and polite. It's also more my pace.

Oh and you're probably wondering what arrangements we had. My husband had a traveling job so he spent time in California often but we had to do long distance for a year since we've been married and before that he was living in California for 2 years.