Is it normal my bf prefers to work alone than spend time with me?
My boyfriend has a lot of serious personal projects he is working on, so whenever I ask him to come do stuff with me on weekends he prefers to be alone & work instead. This has happened almost every time. He's polite, but he only likes to work. I have even asked him to come on trips with me, we've never been on one yet. He really is a good guy, but just only likes to work/be on his projects alone. I often won't see him for days at a time, he is always working.
He often wants the whole weekend to himself bc he's so focused. Often I won't see him at all. When I sleep over, he'll often have me out early so he can get back to work/be alone again. He doesn't even like to cuddle, we've never cuddled in the morning. He's not cheating I don't think, he has plenty of friends but chooses not to hang w them too, only likes to be alone.
How can I sustain a relationship like this? I do feel a bit lonely. I love going out & doing cool things or adventures. I find myself always doing them alone. Is this just normal for men? & what can I do about it?