Is it normal my gf wants a vibrator?

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So my Gf and I are both extremely busy with studies and uni that we rarely get to see each other. My girlfriend told me that lately she had been feeling really horny, and seeing as I can't be with her to have sex with her, she wants to buy a vibrator.
Should I be okay with it?
I mean on the plus side, at least I know she's not cheating on me. But the fact that my job as her boyfriend is being replaced by a cylindrical piece of plastic, kinda makes me feel like I've been robbed of my partner duties.
I know that a relationship isn't all about sex, but I just feel less of a man.
IIN?

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Meh, honestly I think it's insecure and a little childish. Do you masturbate when you can't get laid in a while? If the answer is yes you have no reason to feel jealous. Most girls have a hard time reaching orgasm as is, so what if she wants something a little more filling than fingers? Besides, have you ever tried sticking fingers in yourself? It's kinda tiring on the hands, getting that angle... much better to do it with a toy.

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    • TerryVie
      11 years ago

      yeah, what shade said:

      first, let me ask you this:

      When you don't see her for a while, do you relegate her "girlfriend duties" to either of your hands? If so, why do you get to masturbate and she doesn't?

      As for wether she uses her fingers or a piece of plastic...please, don't be THAT insecure.
      most people use cars to get around instead of bicycles...simply because they're more convenient and less tiring. The same way that plastic toy is more convenient and less tiring than fingers.
      And as much as neither cars nor bicycles have a realistic chance of replacing walking, neither her fingers nor that vibrator will have a realistic chance of replacing intimacy with you.
      Your smell, your touch, your warmth, positions, kisses, being held...lets put it that way, if ALL you do during sex can be accomplished by a vibrating little plastic cylinder, she'd be better off without you...but i heavily doubt that.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    You can not please her every minute of the day. What do you expect her to do sit and wait. Even without it she is probobly already touching herself. Are you going to tell her she can not masturbate? Should her touching herself really be your decision? Buy her a toy. I am sure she would much rather have you but it is probobly going to keep her satisfied in the mean time.

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  • Geneva5
    11 years ago

    She is an obvious slut - probably taking as many cocks as she can when yr not around !

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    Well what if she misses you teaching her? what if when she thinks of you she is getting horny? I guess you are wishing she would fuck another man instead so GOOD FOR YOU OP!

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  • Wambo37
    11 years ago

    she wont need one if you show her a night she wont forget. Please her hard. Even if you cant do it...Just have great sex. practise its like playing guitar

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    "replaced by a cylindrical piece of plastic"

    There's your problem. Why does masturbation have to mean anything about your partner's prowess?

    Sometimes it has nothing to do with you.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    What are you whining about? She wants to feel good without you being around. Be glad she isn't cheating instead.

    You're not being replaced, you're simply being...immitated.

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda
    11 years ago

    Well it's normal to feel belittled and purposeless as a consequence of your girlfriend wanting to do that...your every action an insipid waste of breath...your every breath a fruitless waste of time...
    FUCK YOU JENNIFER!!! FUCK YOU.

    But yeah just be glad she has a high sex drive I'd say.

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      Aww, tot...jennifer does not deserve your taters.

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