Is it normal my penis is 4 and half inches erect.

Four and a half inches is slightly on the small side, but it is more than enough to get the job done. Overall, size is less important than skill (which comes with time) and penis health (which can be significantly aided by using a quality penis health crème with amino acids.)

I just measured my penis and it turns out I am about the same length. I have had many girlfriends in the past and am happily married with children. You have your own gifts. Try slipping a finger in her bottom and use it to press on the rectovaginal wall against your penis when you are thrusting. She will not ask whether or not it is in.

Dude trust me, you don't want a big dick. Im 8 in and very wide and it's a gift and a curse. 2 inches can please a woman and the only reason size is a factor for women is because of their vagina and thoughts. When a woman feels she's about to get hurt, her vagina constricts and when she feels comfortable it loosens all involuntarily. This is why girls that are more comfortable with sex due to liberality and or experience are "loose" and virgins are considered "tight". Your girlfriend isnt intimidated and is thus too comfortable causing her to be looser than normal because a normal vagina will feel a fingertip inside of it so why not a penis? With this dynamic, having a large penis has its setbacks and that's why guys that have it dont talk about it or penises at all.

You are half an inch short of being average. Just gotta live with it bro. Complaining about its size isn't going to help. It's what you are going to do with it and how you work around your problem.

Hey man u wanna know what, I have that same problem, like spot on but that's not the point the point is that u shouldn't care what people think about the size of your dick, all that matters is that your confident in yourself, I get harased all the time on my body size oor if I'm not Mr.Buetiful, but I know that its what it think that counts. And if your wife has stayed with you even though it's small. That meens she loves you And i think that's all that counts and atleast you dident end up with that cunt who sent that terrible message, her vagina is probley bigger then the entire damn dictionary.

I think that bitch is playing with your mind..If she can feel her finger while she is masturbating! then she can definitely feel if your 4 inch dick is up her cunt.....your penis is normal son,,anything larger then 5 and half inches then should be a farm animal

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theres a doctor in florida his name is dr loria at loriamedical he helps people have a bigger penis all the info is on his website look him up on google his website will pop up

also mine is 5and a half she says she likes it but i think all women like that so what to think? charles the past thing hurts inside moe that u can imagine like the other one said anything over 5 should be a farm animal i believe that they are called freaks of nature and they dam sure are but why would a woman continue to stay for a while maybe 4 or 5 month with such a freak?

i fell the same way and have for years but my wife is 60 im 57 we both are happy i take it with what i got i want to believe her sometimes it hurts me from her past with bigger gut in the basement area, but thats something i have to ajust to but not happy about it what do u think butch/charles

I don't think it's normal for her to ask. If she really thinks its big enough she wouldn't ask. Maybe she should be on top to have the control. I am always on top.

Sounds like its the girth not the length why she would say that.

why dont you try different positions where you get the deepest penetration. bigger doodles (more than 7 inches) is a waste because it hurts when guys try to go balls deep. you are a little on the smaller side but like i said, try different positions and see how you go. try using a penis pump. i have no idea whether or not they would work but its safer than surgery. if that doesnt work, get a strap on and bang her with that, once she cums then have your own way with her. good luck!

Aww you poor thing, its ok at least you have a lady though. First thing are you over weight? If so loose some fat and watch your penis grow, for real, the fatness will just devower your penis. Second, my frind had a man with a long skinny penis and he used a penis pump that made it bigger and she was satisfied. (I dont think he had enough girth) 4in girth is pretty nice. From what I hear the pump does work. Third, her sitting on top will give a deeper penitration or doggy style. Dont forget to play with her clit if you can this will alow her to orgasm and yes typically its how you use it that counts. My cousin had a man with a 10 incher and she left cause it was too big appologizing on the way out. So at least its not too big to the point no one wants to deal with it right? And the pills, they dont work, they just make you hard all the time.

You might have a problem if you have a thin penis , the length is a little on the short size but woman prefer a thick one than a long one. Make her have an orgasm with you tongue then let her have it!!!