Is it normal my roommate keeps repeating the same things?

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Is it normal my roommate keeps repeating the same things out side my bedroom door? Really mean things like I'm not worthy of love or a relationship and my relationship is ending and it worsening and is she serious all through out the day because I have anxiety and am scared to come out my room. And my husband and some more people are doing it to and they wo no t stop and are extremely loud all day. What should I do? Please help. Like I'm totally confused and not sure which way to turn

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    Do you have a history of mental health issues? Or a therapist?

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  • Boojum
    2 years ago

    If I've understood your OP correctly, you're saying that you never leave your bedroom, and you constantly hear numerous people saying hurtful things to you from the other side of your door.

    There are plenty of horrible people in the world who like to make others feel miserable, and it's possible that you just happen to have lots of those people around you. However, you imply that this is going on all the time - like the nasty people have some sort of schedule where they take turns so that there's always someone standing outside your door and harassing you. Does that really seem plausible to you?

    I find it interesting that you say nothing about these people saying these things to your face. I'd imagine that if they really hated you, they'd be willing to say the horrible things while looking you in the eye. Have you ever opened the door - even a crack - and confronted them? If you haven't and you feel a deep fear of what you'd discover if you were to do so, then you might want to consider the possibility that the voices are not actually coming from the other side of the door.

    Whatever is going on in your head and in your household, you're clearly in distress about it. Nobody here can say anything definite about what's going on or suggest what you should do, but it's obvious that you need help of some sort.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    No, its not normal... and is harmful.

    Can you change roommates or move?

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  • CalliesFinest29
    2 years ago

    Yeah I need out of it then another weird thing I'm starting to get scared. My husband is starting to act strange like when ever I refuse to do something he ask he starting to act really angry and aggressive towards me and like crazy like andvit raises my anxiety and scared me and they keep saying things like I'm no good and a waist and then later on that they was joking

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  • harkosv
    2 years ago

    The way this is worded it sounds like your husband is joining in on the abusive talk? If so, it sounds like couples counseling may be in order because no husband should ever treat his wife that way

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