Is it normal my wife only gives me a handjob?

I think it's time for you to get a mistress.

Mmm I think your spark is fizzeling out. Try to spice it up again...suggest new things that u think she might like.

Maybe even see a counselor like a marriage one.

Another the same here. We're both 61, wife no longer wants penetrative sex as it's painful for her. We have a Sunday morning 'lie-in' where we both use our hands on each other. We have a cuddle, and I play with her and can make her come maybe 3 out of 4 weeks. She's not very skilled either tbh, but I always come eventually.

I enjoy it as it's all the physical contact I get now, but I must admit I really need more. I do wank off when I get the chance, and fantasize endlessly about our female friends! Wouldn't ever follow that through though as we are happily married.

Nice to know this is quite normal!

This is normal. I get the same treatment. Usually on the weekend, I will ask my wife if she wants to "Have Sex". Most of the time she says yes and tells me to "get ready" which means to get naked and into bed and lay on my stomach. She will then lay beside me wearing her clothes, on her back and put her right hand palm up flat and I get to rub against it. I always thank her and tell her she gives the "Best Hand Jobs". We are happily married.

My wife is in her 70's and I am in my 60's. For the last 10 years she has only ever given me hand relief after going off sex. She usually performs this for me twice a week which I enjoy very much and look forward to.

I've been married for 7 years. I had sex with my wife 4 times during honeymoon and got her pregnant. As soon as she found out sex stopped completely. Later came the news that we were expecting triplets. This didn't help. After that sex is completely out the question. After delivery I started getting handjobs every other week. She knows I would like more variety and at least she makes up for it being very nice and enthusiastic during her handjobs. She's your wife, you are close and you get the release you need.

Normal and common but maybe not inevitable? I don't know, I can't imagine being with one person for that length of time, but keeping sex interesting for that long would need some commitment and imagination.

If this is new behaviour, what changed? Or was i just a slow creep of boredom?

After 25 years, can't you ask her what she'd like sexually? If she says nothing & you're happy with what you're getting that'd be ok, but if you want more and she's not interested I guess the solution is obvious, isn't it?

No, it's not normal. You should see a marriage counselor. That is definitely very abnormal.

If you want sex from your wife, perhaps you should be more romantic and figure out how to get her excited and how to satisfy her needs. By now, you should know exactly what it takes to give her pleasure and after 25 years there is no reason why a couple can't still be having exciting and stimulating sex.

Talk to her, make her want sex. Y'know...
Set the mood for sex.

I'm not married, a bit young for that, but when I do get married, I want to have lots of sex with my wife.

If you are not satisfied with her, divorce. But judge her on her personality.

my guess is you're not caring with your wife so she hates sex because she feels like she's your cum receptacle.

it's normal ..

You need to find a lover, someone who's gonna get your cock dripping with cum every time you meet. Maybe even another man?

Does she say" well I got a handed to you Bob" when jerks ya?