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I wrestle at my school and I like chicks but wrestling them is just awkward and kind of weird. I'd wrestle chicks at tournaments but that's just cause I have to.
If you throw the match, you're going to get shit for the next few months about how women will never achieve equality in sports with men like you out there that won't give them a chance to compete or perpetuate the whole "fragile female" concept.
While I totally understand that it is not what you're used to and that males that are raised by decent parents would always have qualms with doing physical harm to a female, this is a sport and by participating in it she has forfeited her rights as a female to be free from the physical harm that a male can do to her. Just so long as you both play by the rules.
If she's going to advance in the sport, make her work for it JUST LIKE you had to. That way, nobody will have an actual reason to be pissed off at you.
I'm betting it's from about 3 or 4 factors perhaps...
1) You've been taught up until now that you're not suppose to hit girls. Now you have to fight with one.
2) You're afraid you're going to hurt her perhaps. Which might not be as possible as you think, depending on how well she's trained.
3) You may also be afraid of embarrassing yourself on the matt. (i.e. afraid of getting erect).
4) Ego. If you hold back and she wins then it's not a strike against your ego... but if you really try and she still wins then the guys will tease you.
That's very normal! Don't worry, especially as a teenage guy without having had a ton of contact with girls, that's completely expected. Especially having to get over the idea of never hitting a woman. I wouldn't expect you to get over it in a second. Just try getting used to the idea slowly, because you can't treat girls like they're on a pedestal forever, and something like this could negatively affect you in the future.
and some girls really can hold their own in the ring.
my bf was showing me a video of one women who started in amateur mixed martial arts (UFC I think) and moved to professional. He said her cumulative ring-time was under 5 minutes because she usually won the bout VERY quickly.
Now granted I don't know how she'd do against men but clearly she's not a weakling either.
So you prefer hot, sweaty, hairy boys to wrestle with huh? What's your favorite position? The butt clench? The ass grope?
Keep up the wrestling you little queer boy.
There was a baller female wrestler at my high school, and now she is in the UFC.
As a girl wrestler myself, many guys on my team said it was awkward wrestling girls and most of them felt that girls didn't even belong on wrestling teams!
There was a girl on the other team when I played football and I hated it cause I had to hit her.