Is it normal that a 25 years old guy has never dated anybody?

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I have never dated any girl, and I feel a little "old" now. Is that normal?

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Based on 91 votes (59 yes)
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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    You wouldn't believe how common the stories along the lines of "IIN I'm [insert age here] and never had a boyfriend/girlfriend?" is around here. In any case, I'd say normal, its a lot better than those who date just to have someone and at least this way when you do date, it'll be because real feelings are there and not something rushed.

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    • asasasa
      10 years ago

      ^i agree

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Thanks a lot Paradiddle. Your statements make a lot of sense, so you are probably right and I may be "normal" too.

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  • lonlyg
    10 years ago

    well ime 33 never had a girlfrend and never kissed a girl. i think its normal. i hope.

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      I really hope the same

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  • Chefeetaboopers
    10 years ago

    Well, I never really dated at all as a teen. My husband was my one and only boyfriend.

    My father was the same way.

    If you haven't dated, don't worry about it- dating isn't that important, really, to survival. I feel like you're a normal person. :)

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  • JBN
    10 years ago

    You are over thinking. Get out and meet women. Throw caution to the wind and experiment while you are young. Jump in! Don't waste time on sites like this.

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      Of course I do over think! Thanks for the advice!

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  • Derpinism
    10 years ago

    whats the point of dating

    best thing is when you meet a girl and it is totally unplanned

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  • udolipixie
    10 years ago

    It's not normal if this wasn't by choice as most people have dated.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    You missed out on your early 20s pal. That's prime time for partying and having one night stands. Soon your folks will start pressuring you to enter into a real life relationship, have a successful career and start a family and all that crap, and you'll regret never fooling around when you were young without the burden of adult responsibilities on your shoulder

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      You are probably right.
      I may lost my "youth" but I am really satisfied about never have been in an "one night stand relationship", that's not with me, definitely. However, I do not like partying neither, the only thing that I just regret is about never have had a girlfriend. Nevertheless nobody has died for that situation. So I will take it easy and work on it.
      Thanks!

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  • awesomeadvice88
    10 years ago

    Yes, you could be asexual, you might not have found the right person, you may not like women... There are many reasons dependent on the circumstances that you are encountering? Have you ever wanted to date anyone? Are you shy? Can you not be arsed? These are all questions you should ask yourself to find out the answer! Hope I helped!

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    • Shugaboom
      10 years ago

      You were totally helpful!
      Probably I am too shy, that is the issue. I think I'll have to work in that.
      Thanks!

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      • awesomeadvice88
        10 years ago

        There are lots of ways to increase your confidence and help you become less shy, focus groups are one way. Hopefully you find a way to make you less shy!
        Glad I could help!

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    It seems that dating has not been much of a priority to you. What's changed?
    I'm sure there are millions of places on the internet where you can get some good info on meeting girls and how to become attractive to them. If the time has come for you to start dating, then get off your ass and do some research.

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