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We live together and when he goes out with friends or family he just leaves with no communication. Sometimes I don't even know he is gone, sometimes he leaves while I am making dinner for us and I end up eating alone. It seems odd. I don't think he is cheating, he is not the type but his lack of communication is odd to me. Is his behaviour normal?
It doesn't seem normal, yet I'm going to try this next time I'm in a relationship. Coming and going as I please with no explanation needed sounds awesome.
I was not referring to an explanation, just communication. Now I know why when I tell him where I am going he gives me this weird 'OK'. I am not asking for his permission nor does he have to ask mine. His taking off with no explanation has screwed me for work since he takes the car then I get called in and have had to turn it down several times because I didn't know when he would return with the car. Yay, it's my car and I take it with me when I leave, thank god for cohabitation agreements.
I do stuff like that too. I just don't feel the need to check in what I'm doing. I don't care if people I live with report to me either. I just like being independent but I have had people complain about this.
That's so fuckd up to bail on ur gf while she's cooking for u he sounds like a lame.my ex wud prolly kick my. Ass if I did her dirty like that.( I never wud)
This has been an eye opener. The guys who think this is normal seem to think this is about control. It's not, he is not asking me for permission, I am not going to deny him anything. It's about communication which is what healthy couples do. I am leaving him for a healthy relationship. I could stay and just cheat, he would never know. LOL I choose the high road and will just leave. This is going to hit him hard, he won't see it coming but he never does and always gets dumped.
That is a bit odd.
Personally, I dislike having to give an explanation as to what I'm doing when I go out. However, I think it's just a normal courtesy to advise whomever you live with that you are leaving and a possible time of when you'll return.
Have you talked to him about it?