Is it normal that everyone i care about leaves?

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I keep losing friends, and i know what it is about me that causes it but i don't want to give it up. Basically i don't like a lot of things, not a fan of a lot of popular things, and i dont lecture people about it, but when they ask me for my opinion i tell them honestly "no" no one feels they can connect to me, so i get left behind. but i on the other hand don't mind it at all when people don't like what i have to show them, I feel miserable i've lost a large group of friends, and everyone talks about me behind my back. Is it normal to lose so many people at once and still not want to change?

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  • House
    12 years ago

    well if they don't like you for yourself then screw them!you will find better friends.but that's just my opinion.

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  • ZaneT
    7 years ago

    I real friend is better than a million fake. Learn the difference between friends and acquaintances.

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  • ZaneT
    7 years ago

    Just be yourself

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Maybe they think you are boring. It sucks when your friends like nothing you like. If you are a multidimensional person it not fun talking with people who have little or one single interest. I have lots of interests so I usually gravitate to people with at least one these interests. Try finding friends with similar interests so you actually have something to talk about. Write a list of all the things you like and find people who like at least one of those things.

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  • CreativeThinker
    12 years ago

    Make sure you don't have ADHD, Coz it is normal for an ADHD person he can't hold with any relationship,coz an ADHD effected person can't understand human behaviours.

    Otherwise its not good and normal to lose that many friends

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      Do you mean Autism? ADD/ADHD means you are not focused and get easily distracted. It does not mean that you have trouble understanding human emotion.

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