Is it normal that he gets mad because..

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So I've been with my boyfriend for six months now and we've never realy had any problems with eachother besides his jealousy. I have always been a party type of girl and he knew this since the beginning but I guess because I was in school before I realy had no time for them but now that im out of school it's really hitting him hard that I like going out and may I add that I am not the type to get stupid drunk or high at parties (I consider myself a girl with a mother) what I really like is the type of hype, I enjoy dancing I enjoy socializing with other people (not just guys!). It came down to the point where he is making me choose between him and parties..is it normal, fair or even resonable? please help, what should I do?

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  • thedarklord123
    11 years ago

    Take him to the parties.

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  • Zippy
    11 years ago

    Have you ever given him a reason not to trust you? Can you be a bit of a shameless flirt? If not, it doesn't sound normal to me. You can't ban someone from situations just because there's a possibilty of meeting up with people of the opposite sex. That shows a lack of trust, and without trust in a relationship, then why even bother being togethor?

    Calmly explain to him that trust is at the core of a healthy relationship. Let him know it's unreasonable and controlling for him to have this expectation of you. Even if he's been hurt by others in the past, this doesn't mean he should transfer that onto you. Trust should be given until there is good reason to take it away.

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  • Fam_man3
    11 years ago

    Parties are a single persons sport... Socialize while you get coffee.... You don't need to party to have a good time.... Wtf is wrong with people now-a-days.

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  • Aftershock567
    9 years ago

    U can't put parties before love u have to do something to keep your relationship and go to parties you cod take him to the parts or spent less time at the parts and more time with him

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  • FFXIII
    11 years ago

    Tell him to be a man! Not an asshole asking stupid questions??!!

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  • UniqueOne
    11 years ago

    As you said his ex-girlfriend cheated on him, so i guess he has minor trust issues, something he can get over. Maybe because of his ex-girlfriend he is emotional, he doesn't want you to meet other guys and leave him. Or he might not like the fact that while you're out socialising and meeting new people you're making a slight distance between you. I dunno if this helped at all...

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  • DontGiveUp
    11 years ago

    He's so jelly. You are looking at Jelly Clarkson. He's so jealous, for a really stupid reason, too. If i were you, i would brake up with him and find a guy to accept who you are

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  • Mlopez
    11 years ago

    Wtf am I supposed to dance while I get coffee too?^ I am still 17 you know not 30....I've tried taking him to parties but he dosen't want to because he says it's not his type of thing.. & no I have never given him any reason to not trust me I've never cheated on him or anything he really gets mad when he sees guys on facebook talking to me and he takes it as flirting & he thinks I'm going to cheat on him just like his ex girlfriend did at a party we got into a big fight about how he is taking his trust away from me because of her..I think "@Zippy" is right I need to have an actual conversation with him without arguments about trust.

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  • lalaaa
    11 years ago

    Live your life...you will regret later if you dont do what you want...you are to young to be locked in a relationship

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  • Devyn
    11 years ago

    Although it's understandable for him to be protective of you. He's being illogical and banning you from completely normal social interaction is very unreasonable.

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