Is it normal that i’m always annoyed by my female friends?

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Growing up I hardly had any female friends and when I did, the friendship never worked out it was always like I was one of the guys, reliable trustworthy and a definite wingman. When I began college I decided I should try something new and I’m friends with at least seven females here. Idk if maybe I’m not used to it and I do love them but at the same time I HATE it, they always want to know who I like even if I’m not ready to spill the beans “friends don’t keep secrets” they say. They made me delete my tinder app (I wasn’t finding anyone anyway) because apparently it was just bringing me down they always take my snacks from me because they say I complain I should lose weight but I’m always eating cookies. Is this how it is having female friends? Should I be thankful that they’re so involved? Or set boundaries? I don’t know my guy friends are never like this, educate me.
P.S. I explained how I felt like I was going to school with parents it’s like I almost have no privacy they even want to check my phone to make sure I’m not using dating apps ( but then again, what time I got really upset and left campus for a bit without telling anyone)

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Yuck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    I was wondering if it was just my imagination that as a female, some women are less respectful of my privacy than men.

    That's understandable, but chicks need to know that they don't have a right into my business either.

    Like, "R.E.S.P.E.C.T, find out what it means to me".

    However, these girls seem like they're too extreme, and just being nosy jerks under the guise of helpfulness.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    It's normal because those friends sound shitty. My best friend is a female and she's never even wanted to check my phone.

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  • athem
    6 years ago

    Yeah, they definitely don't sound like good friends. Let them know that what they're doing is bothering you and, if they don't stop, it might be time to look for better friends.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Tell them to my their own business. My friends don't do this.

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  • barstool
    6 years ago

    Shit, yeh that's a bit over the top. Most women aren't quite that bad, I don't think so anyway. But college age girls are probably the worst, to be fair.

    Maybe you should be a bit more assertive and set a few boundaries, but I'd be careful doing this - You don't want to actually start a fight with them or anything. Because it sounds like that would be a total pain in the ass with these girls; I'd say they'd love a bit of drama by the sounds of it. A friend-feud might totally get them off (just guessing here, could be wrong).

    Otherwise, just be careful what information you divulge. It's totally fine to tell literally nobody some things, don't listen to the "friends don't keep secrets" stuff. Most people can't keep secrets to save their lives.

    As for the other annoying stuff... maybe tell them to stop being overly involved but be nice about it. Having some annoying friends is usually better than having no friends at all.

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  • itachi_uchiha
    6 years ago

    Well I am guy & all my male friends also interferes with my personal things too but I think it's just the way some friends are maybe female freinds are like that too

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