Is it normal that i’ve never done this tomy boyfriend?

So I’m with my first real partner I’m 25 and i lost my V to him and everything mainly because my anxiety is so bad I never put myself out there and was always scared of having a relationship

Because of everything that comes with it, I was so worried about sex, would I be good enough? Would I be embarrassed about being naked etc
I got over that he made me feel comfortable and didn’t rush me.
Now I have another worry and that’s giving him a blowjob, never done it and don’t know where to start.... I feel embarrassed really... we’ve been together a year and I have mentioned it to him because I feel bad but he says it’s okay.
We’ve been in lockdown separate so when we are allowed to meet again I want to be able to feel confident to do it.

Any help?

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  • megadriver

    As a guy, let me tell you this... I've never judged a woman on how well she gave me a blowjob and would never berate a woman if it wasn't perfect.

    Some women are more experienced, some enjoy it more, some don't as much. What is commendable is that you want to give your boyfriend a blowjob and that's a very hot and intimate thing. Go for it, do it at your own pace, see what feels right and always be gentle. It's about you, you have to feel comfortable doing it.

    Forget about porn where women furiously choke on dick, grip it tighter than a hydraulic press, or suck harder than a turbo running at 50PSI... That's a major turn off for me at least. Here are my tips, based on what I love when getting a blowjob.

    Do it slowly, gently, start with a few quick kisses on the tip, kiss the length of his penis and lick the tip. Gradually spice it up.

    Sensually guide his penis in with both of your hands on it, supporting it only with your fingers, doing a very slight stroking motion as you give him the blowjob. Occasionally putting one hand on his balls, very lightly supporting them only with your fingers and he'll be on cloud nine.

    You don't even have to take him in all the way, do it as much as you feel comfortable with.

    You are in control and you set the tempo. Some guys like to thrust while getting a blowjob, or grab their girlfriend's head I don't. Only if my girlfriend wants it, then I'll do it. It's a huge turn on to let her be in control for a change.

    My girlfriend uses this technique to drive me wild. Nothing is hotter than a gentle, slow and sensual blowjob, where you feel the delicate and feminine touch.

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    • Tommythecaty

      As a guy, let me tell you this... I've never not judged a woman on how well she gave me a blowjob

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      • dirtybirdy

        Oh dear, I have questions for you but just nevermind...

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        • Tommythecaty

          Lololololol 🤭

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  • Mammal-lover

    Outside if the tips posted above ask him to tell you how it feels what's good what's bad etc. And dont get offended by anything he says. It's stupid easy to teeth a dick.

    When he comes be ready for what you want. In you, on you or not at all. If in you let me tell ya it feels super weird but your guy will love it.

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  • XYXY

    Start by licking the tip of his dick. Take your time and slowly start to work your way down it maybe have a little suck on his balls. Then go back to the tip of his dick. Start to lick it again and this time take the end of it in your mouth just 2 or 3 inches at first. Take it out again and go back to licking and kissing the length of it. You might want to repeat this 2 or 3 times.

    When you’re ready push it all the way into your mouth. Any time he starts thrusting, which he probably will just pull back a bit and use your hand to stop him. You are in charge here not him. Once you take his full length and when you’re ready then you can work him up and down slowly increasing the speed. He may start thrusting again and might hold your head to try and stop you pulling away, or just because he wants to thrust as deep into your throat as possible. If you’re ok with that then let him, if not then push him off.

    When you feel he is about to cum you can either pull him out or let him cum in your mouth. If he cums in your mouth you can either spit or swallow. If you intend to spit try not to have him too deep into your throat when he cums or you won’t be able to spit it all out. Guys usually love it when you let them cum in your mouth and even more so when they know you swallowed. So if you want to give him the best time then let him cum straight into the back of your throat and swallow. The taste isn’t great but it’s not that bad either and once you get used to it you just won’t worry about it anymore. He will love it and want to keep coming back for more.

    Make sure you use this to your advantage. Once you have given him a great blow job just how he likes it you will be able to negotiate how much oral he gives you before he gets another one. You can probably get about 5 to 1 in your favour.

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    • I’m so worried it’s unreal!

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      • XYXY

        Stop worrying. Create a nice relaxed atmosphere, have a relaxing bath and maybe light some scented candles or something, put on some soft music. Whatever makes you feel relaxed.

        Don’t tell him what you’re planning just let him think you want a nice romantic evening, that way if you bottle out at the last minute he doesn’t need to know. Get comfortable with him on the bed or couch or wherever you are happy, start with some kissing, cuddling that sort of thing.

        Once things start to warm up and he’s getting a bit frisky push him down onto his back, if he resists just tell him to keep still. Kiss his chest and then slowly start working your way down his body. Take your time and don’t rush anything. Once you get to his dick then follow my previous advice.

        Whatever happens remember you are under no obligation to go any further than you want to go. If you get as far as kissing his dick then want to stop then you can. You can always give him a hand job or just have regular sex.

        Whatever happens, once he starts getting aroused he will be gagging for you. You will be able to finish him off whatever way you want. If you bottle out of a blow job don’t worry, there is always the next time.

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  • Love giving a guy a blow job, you'll soon learn what he likes and adjust your mouth and tongue to give him maximum pleasure. First time he shoots his load in tour mouth you may find the taste strange but you'll soon get over that and love swallowing his load.

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  • Fussmann

    I've never given one either, but from what experience I do have you don't really have anything to worry about, frankly. Just be careful with your teeth, use lots of tongue and lips. Beyond that just have fun with it, imo.

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