Is it normal that i almost blacked out when i approached a girl?

Yea. So i'm in boarding school (secondary/high) in some obscure african country. And i fear girls. 'Lyk they'll cut off my balls and eat them' fear. So i stayed without speaking to a girl since primary school coz i went to a boy school (no relationships outside of school btw). Recently, however, there was a function (a function is an event where students from different secondary schools interact with each other) that i was forced to attend by my classmates so as to end my 'drought'. It was at a neighbouring girl school. I almost shit my pants coz then they threatened that i had to get evidence showing i had talked to a girl i.e get a girl's number on my arm. So i'm at this function, girls all around me, rectum threatening to explode, not havin a clue of how to accomplish my mission. However, i remembered the threats and decide that i have to do this. I spot this chick with a nice ass (i knw it's inappropriate but wat tha hell) and decide 'that shall be my prey', she had a friend by her side. I decide to follow them, gathering courage for what i thought of as a kamikaze mission. I tried to confront her several tymz but i wussed out severally. But when she and her friend entered the canteen, i decided i would wait for her outside. She got out and i thought 'fuk it, let's do this', and walked towards her. When she looked at me, i felt blood rushing to my head, my heart screaming bloody murder so i could hear it and my vision started dimming from the edges. Thank God i didn't black out. I said, 'hi, you're called?' she said,'khendi'. I said,'what?' She spells it out. Awkward silence. I say its my first funkie (function. It's sheng for function) She laughs and says i look too old for it to be my first. Conversation continued. She left with her friend.
I had asked for her number.
She didn't give it to me.
(this by a fat boy listening to 'I AM'. All hail house btw)

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  • disthing

    This is why single-sex boarding schools are a bad idea.

    Gender segregation in your formative years is pretty unnatural, and leads to unhealthy or unrealistic preconceptions of the other gender.

    That said, approaching anyone you're attracted to for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience. So it's normal to be nervous and for your heart to be pounding. Thankfully you didn't black out (that would be mortifyingly embarrassing).

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  • Mersaphe

    You learn by experiencing rejection.

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  • You sound like the guy (yukinari?) from girls bravo :P I dont think your extreme reaction is normal though. I think gradual exposure and even research on girls would help you. Can you text them or chat via a phone or a computer without a problem?

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  • 43451

    Just smoke some weed and approach her and I promise you will not be scared or the feeling to black-out. It will help you concur what is bothering you.

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    • Diver2

      Conquer...try sucking cock..

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