Is it normal that i am a 27-year-old virgin?

awww, i know, it tough out there sometimes to met people, but dont give up

It's fine. It's better to lose your virginity to someone you love, in a meaningful way than to lose it to some stranger who just wants sex.

Females complaine when guys are all over them, girls complain when guys aren't over them at all...Just can't win.

^^^Half joke.

Back on topic. Not going to sugar coat it, you may not be that attractive, and perhaps you are putting a higher standard on people you think best suit you. If you're not attractive, holding out for an attractive man to choose you is just unlikely to happen. If you want a partner, find someone your level. Remember that appearance isn't everything, although it is usually what starts a relationship off.

I think it's nice. Might be that you're meant to lose it to "The One" --you know, the one you'll spend the rest of your life with. Personally, I lost my virginity horribly young during a drunken episode and I would HAPPILY switch places with you. Don't let it get you down.

Not a big deal really.

I'm 24 and i had all the possible chances with girls that any guy would love to have, but i ran away every momment i got very close to a girl, i was too scared... Now im in the same situation than you, well no, im in a worst scenario cuz im a man -_-
maybe its time for me to become a superhero, steal a bank and die in an heroic way..

May not normal but very cool. Well done. Your future spouse will be honored. I am a 28 year old virgin and really struggle with the thought that my spouse may not be.

it's ok. it's ok to wait until it's right

I am proud of you girl! Hell everyone loses their virginity at 16 these days, its crazy. You shouldn't be ashamed to still be a virgin, you should be proud to have waited! Wait tell you find the right guy.

I hope i have sex quick bevore its too late and get sex with those OLD GRANDMA dating sites

I think it is so nice to give your virginity to some one who deserving it I mean it make you feel more confitable because it is not only important to lose your virginity it is also important to have nice memory to remember it.
by the way I am 33 years old man I can be your friend and we can know each other more.
thanks.

Maybe you could try to act or look more feminine so guys will see you as more than "just a friend".

Try going to a local bar, have a few drinks, wear some cleavage and mini skirt.. and start telling anybody that will listen how you're need some meat.

get off your computer

That's a long time to be charging up your zen but it's gonna be great when you finally give a guy fun in the bellybutton.

I like making sandwiches. We should all make them together :)

hey guy here 27 also stil a virgin i guess casue i dont fit the standerd for beauty who knows sex is nice but what i really want is some one to hold or cuddle take showers with or cook for

Don't take it personally. Statistically speaking, it has to happen to somebody. Some people lose it (consentually) when they're 11, some people never lose it, and really, it has little to nothing to do with who you are as a person and basically everything to do with circumstances-- sometimes it just never gets around to happening, sometimes it does. If it really bugs you that you haven't had it yet, then you're perfectly welcome to go out of your way to get it. There are plenty of ways to get laid, and if you don't concern yourself with ass-backwards societal and cultural teachings that tell us that women aren't allowed to want sex but men are glorified for having it, then most of the methods to get sex can be nothing more than a means to an end.

nope

why ashamed, you are very mormal ..
me i have 44 yo a man and i still single and virgin

First of all not everyone loses it by 20 I waited until I was married(23). I am not religious but wanted making love to be making LOVE not just sleeping with a some chick. So yes I believe it is normal to be a virgin no matter what your age is if you don't have a lover not just a screwer.

This is an emergency. Fuck anyone. NOW.

I first made love at the tender age of 32 after losing my almost husband because I didn't want to go all the way.

The guy I finally gave it to was in fact my first boyfriend whom I had met at 16 and then lost track of for about 15 years.

It just happened, and when things got going and he took out a condom I knew it was time.

I don't think I was a real virgin, I had had fun, with him and a couple others before him, however some time later, while we were getting ready to go out, he was staying at my place for a long week-end, he came up behind me, stroked my hair and said "someone just made love", in a very tender way.

Did he know?

Not sure, I never had the guts to ask whether he meant it had been the first time with him or whether he had somehow sensed the truth.

We aren't together any longer, he got married and has two young daughters, the good thing is we are still good friends.

You're normal. Don't worry about it.
I'm also 27, a lot of my friends are married, even with sons... but I'm enjoying being single, I've travelled more than my friends and being single I've had a lot of opportunities, also a better job. I'm not slave of my wife/sons/family/boss... I'm the chief! lol
When I was 23 I had a girlfriend, but she broke my heart in only 6 months. Now I'm looking for a girlfriend too! Maybe is our lucky day!, Where do you live? What do you do? Do you practice any sport? =)
PS: I'M STILL VIRGIN, and I'm looking for something to love with all my body and soul!

Dunkfunk I m sorry for you, you r looser, and as for girl who write the post yes you are 27, so what most of the girls feel jealous that you are virgin bcoz you save your self for some one special who gonna be your husband, concentrate on that work on your self be feet, be smart, active your prince charming coming, do you think prince need a second hand like Dunkfunk its not iven second hand its miss used and abused.

I think most people on this sight are virgins because we are on the computer instead of out side in the real world. I don't want to sound mean but if you are average looking then you need to go after average looking guys.

Get some new friends who might have the same issue

I knew a girl who was in exactly your situation. She was fairly plain, but her main problem was neuroses and insanely high standards for men. No plain guy, or poor one, or one whose wit was less than sparkling, had a chance with her. Worse, she wanted sit there, judge all comers and wait for blokes to work really hard and make her life like a Hollywood movie.

Short story is that you need to initiate conversation, be friendly and lower your standards.

she is energetic girl so advise her not wander for arrogance.

if u bored get drunk n have fun if u ok with it wait till u meet d man =)

Are you sure you didn't lose it to your own fingers yet? That would be really weird given your situation. Tell you what: I'll play nice.
Don't worry, you are going to find the man of your life, he will want to do lots of stuff down there!
(sure,whatever,including attempting to murder you)

I can help if you are really that adamant about losing your virginity.

no go get laid

Who cares, dont beat your self up, thats life, dont be ashamed because you are a virgin its no biggie and if you think thats shameful try and be sexualy attracted to kids as young as 12-13 and you tell me if thats shameful not saying im a rapist or anything like that

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not normal