Is it normal that i am a 49 year old virgin male only attracted 2 males?

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Hi. I have now reached the age of 49 years old as a male and I have yet to have any relationships yet. I have never actually had any friends either, but my question pertains to love relationships only now for this post. I have never felt any sexual attraction toward females yet, I only feel horny when I see other males. Also I only have had crushes and falling in love feelings for other males too. Am I normal to be this way and be a virgin at almost 50 years old with no relationship experience? Part of the reason I haven't had anyone yet is due to being introverted and having avoidant personality disorder. Also for a long time, my religion, society, and family told me same-sex relationships are forbidden and sinful, so I avoided dating, sex, and relationships entirely, so I ended up a nearly 50 year old virgin.

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    So you don’t actually have to tell your family about your sex life. Imagine, this entire time of existence, youve refused but never gotten anywhere.

    There’s no way you’ve never had one person you’ve thought of as a friend. I just can’t believe that.

    Regardless of social standards, IT IS OK TO BE “gay”.

    Go travel. Visit other places and just be yourself. I promise things will be different.

    Be well.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    1 year ago

    I suspect there are quite a few gay boomer and gen-x people who never felt confident or safe perusing a relationship.

    The past is gone, all you have is the present now.

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