Is it normal that i am afraid to have kids?

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I don't want to have children because I am afraid of having a strong emotional attachment to another person. What if something bad were to happen to them? How do people cope with that?

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Based on 61 votes (53 yes)
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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    *What if something bad were to happen to them?*
    Make a new one =D

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Very normal to have worries, but the rewards of having kids is so much greater than the worries!

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    franks and beans

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  • jakeupp
    12 years ago

    It can be normal to fear children before they are even born most mothers have that feeling before their first child.

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  • Bastart
    12 years ago

    You probably have schezoid personality(not shcezophrenia)

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  • Janie2T
    12 years ago

    You cope with what you have to cope with. Deal with one thing at a time. We wasn't ever promised a rose garden, so to speak. I have been through a lot in my two decades of life, but I come through it all pretty strong for what I had to endure. You have to face life boldly. You can not let in run you over. You have to make your head up to be tough. I have two youngons that I love more than my own life hisself, but if something happened to them I would just keep on going. Yeah, it WOULD hurt. But I WOULD live on and be still stronger. I would much rather be tyhe fox than the rabbit. The fox is cunning and smart. The rabbit is always on the run, because lots of critters love rabbit stew, hon.

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