Is it normal that i am emotionally attached to my old band teacher?

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I'm in the eighth grade, (I know not 18, but where else can I ask if I'm normal... so PLEASE don't delete this post!). Last year I was in the middle school ametuer band, because I didn't make the more challenging band, and I really liked it because of the band director, who I don't have anymore. She is so funny and cool, and I guess that I'm attached to her? I m usually thinking about her, about a conversation we had, or something I wish to happen with her. I don't LOVE her, like love her romantically or sexually, but I really like her. Is this normal? Also, if you feel like commenting, she is leaving on October third because she is pregnant with her first baby. I am emotionally distraught. I don't know what's wrong with me, what can I do to get over myself, or anything. Besides listen to sad music and cry.

PS - PLEASE DON'T DELETE THIS POST I'LL DIE

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you have a crush :3 normal.

    I'd be surprised if anyone reports this post. You're more well spoken than half the ADULTS who post on this site, sheeit.

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    • seekelp
      9 years ago

      Yeah, I couldn't spot a single spelling mistake anywhere in the post. However, OP does display the same level of understanding of interpersonal relationships that the confused masses on here hold.

      "I don't LOVE her, like love her romantically or sexually, but I really like her."

      This sentence makes absolutely no sense, OP. You'll have to clarify.

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      • helpmeee
        9 years ago

        I've found a better way of explaining my feeling towards her: She's my role model, and I would like to grow up to be somewhat like to her. She is one of the few people who accepts me and belives in me. I guess the way I feel about her is similar to the way I would love an older cousin, not romantically. Also I'm a girl, and I don't think I'm lesbian, (but this is like the most confusing time for me so who knows?)

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        • seekelp
          9 years ago

          In that case, yes.

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  • TheJester
    9 years ago

    Who cares if you spell better than some adults on this site? This site is for over 18's, not people who know basic 6th grade spelling.

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    • helpmeee
      9 years ago

      Aah, is it really appropriate for me to tell my guidance counselor that I may have a crush on a teacher? I'd like to use this as a last resort to problems like these. I just wish we were capable of looking past age.

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  • howaminotmyself
    9 years ago

    Deal with it. Life is sure to hit you with bigger problems than this. If you can't manage accepting the fact that your teacher is living a normal life and moving on you will not do well.

    Recognize that this isn't a problem.

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