Is it normal that i am nervous because i am 4 years older than my bf?

I am 27 and my boyfriend is 23. My last boyfriend was older than me and cheated on me with a teenager. I love my boyfriend but I am so scared that he secretly thinks I am old and ugly and that he would rather have a younger woman. Is it normal?

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45% Normal
Based on 56 votes (25 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Four years is not a large enough age difference for this to be a major concern.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Yeah, that's pretty much a normal way for women to think.
    A woman could be the most beautiful woman on earth, but she's still going to be insecure about her looks.
    If he loves you, and is with you, then just accept that he thinks you are "the bomb". Stop worrying so much and enjoy the moment.

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  • Crusades

    If he would think you're old and ugly he wouldn't be with you in the first place.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I usually shart thinking about only a four yr difference

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  • Energy

    He wants you. Age doesn't matter.

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  • Mike914914

    Damn he went and fucked a young teenager. How young was she. I don't think your old. I think k your perfect and bet you can take care of this huge cock so good and you'll forgot about your ex fast while my cock is in your throat then my tongue in tour ass and pussy as I ginger you then fill you deep baby

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  • TheMightyOz

    I love older women. You sound like a dream date.

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  • MrAbnormal

    "Old and ugly"? WTF a 27-year-old has had more time to develop. Your brain doesn't stop developing until around that age. But anatomically, how much of a difference is there between a 27-year-old and a 23-year-old?

    There are guys who prefer to date older girls, and since there are more girls who prefer older guys over younger guys, a guy like that is going to be thankful he's found you rather than jumping at his first opportunity to cheat on you.

    Have a chat to see how he feels about the matter. What, you haven't talked about it yet? You can't have a relationship without communication.

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  • Mersaphe

    Right, because girls/women at 27 are so old and ugly. Seriously 27 is young. Don't be insecure about nothing.

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  • Aliceee93

    Age is just a number, if he wanted a younger woman he wouldn't be with you. You're probably insecure because your last boyfriend cheated.

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  • It does not seem like a big deal.

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    • dirtybirdy

      That's what she said!

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      • Birds can't distinguish the differences between the human genders.

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