Is it normal that i am not excited for valentines day?

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I'm not feeling excited for it, not because I'm some single pringle dude but rather because I don't feel happy for it.

I personally hate it when most of my friends rub it in front of my face that they're having the best time of their life on that day which makes me hate it even more.

Perhaps I'm looking at it at a very different outlook about it however.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    It's normal. It's just another day to me, and was while I was in relationships as well. I just see it as an opportunity to eat good chocolates! 🤣

    Honestly, it sounds as if your friends really aren't having that great of a time if they're busy trying to make you feel bad by rubbing it in your face. Why would someone who enjoys something try to purposefully make someone feel bad who doesn't get to enjoy it? They don't sound like much of friends if they enjoy trying to make you feel bad about it.

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  • MonteMetcalfe
    2 years ago

    On Feb 15 all the chocolate goes on sale.

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      2 years ago

      The stores in my area have gotten smart about that shit. They stop ordering more holiday candy two weeks before the holiday and there's barely any candy left the day after. I used to be able to stock up on large bags of candy for 25 cents each. XD

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        2 years ago

        There was one valentines day back forever ago this mapco in the hood had the big valentines resees for only $0.25 a pop after valentines day and it was for the big ones. I spent like $7 bucks and walked out with like 10lbs of candy lol

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        • Cuntsiclestick
          2 years ago

          Those half pound Reeses cups are so good! They're like makeshift pies.
          XD
          I looked up what a Mapco was and we don't have that brand of gas here in NY. It's always nice to learn something new.
          :)

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      • MonteMetcalfe
        2 years ago

        That's not right. I want to speak to your manager!

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        • Cuntsiclestick
          2 years ago

          I found some clearance candy hidden behind some boxes of cereal at Rite Aid this morning. It was half off, not 90 percent off, but I'm still happy.

          XD

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      OH, HELL YEAH!!! 😍🍫👍🏻

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    2 years ago

    I didn't know they changed the recipe. I haven't had that candy in years. Maybe they'll bring the classic flavor back one day.
    :)
    Edit: I just looked some stuff up and apparently the original recipe for those hearts isn't available anymore because the company that made them Necco went out of business.

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  • powertothepeople
    2 years ago

    Valentines day is a day used by the patriarchy to allow the foricble rape of women. Yes go for dinner with your partner. Yes he MUST pay. But do not put out unless you feel like he has earned it. Men are pigs and they will try and rape you if you let them.

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    • megadriver
      2 years ago

      What are you on about? How exactly is a day celebrating love between couples "allow rape"?! Also how can a woman be raped, if she AGREES to and WANTS sex? As it's the norm for a couple.

      Also isn't feminism about equality? Man pays his half, woman pays hers. I always handle the bill, because I'm a gentleman and it's how I was raised, but if we're gunning for perfect political correctness - I (as a man) should only pay half of the date.

      Do you do this out of spite, or do you genuinely believe the garbage you write?

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      • powertothepeople
        1 year ago

        I just don't understand why this annoys you so much. I would really read some feminist theory and educate yourself before you talk to others like you do.

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  • Clunk42
    2 years ago

    What an insult to St. Valentine this day has become.

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      Yes, indeed!

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    I’m in a relationship and I couldn’t care less for Valentine’s Day.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I couldn't care less for it either.

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman
    2 years ago

    It's just another day to me. I don't 'do' relationships so what is the point of it?

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    2 years ago

    I don't see anything special about it.

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  • Tinybird
    2 years ago

    Valentine's day is the worst day of the year and should be banned.

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  • Lusty-Argonian
    2 years ago

    I like vakentines day though I wouldn't want to go out for it. Order a pizza or gril up some hot dogs and watch some romances while cuddling sounds great to me though

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    • EnglishLad
      2 years ago

      Why do I feel like you only enjoy valentines day because it's an excuse for your man to splurge his resources on you, and you'd be upset if he didn't?

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      • Lusty-Argonian
        2 years ago

        I've had q relationship like that I hated it, it felt weird. No I just like the theme of valentines day plus an abundance of chalky candy wich is my favorite. The most that ever gets splurged when dating me is a nice meal and maybe drinks. Wich in my area without drinks is 50 bucks after tip wich we take turns paying for. I'm not a gold digger. Never have been likley never will be.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    2 years ago

    Just remember half of the world is made up of single adults.

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  • SmokesTheScrapper
    2 years ago

    Neither my last ex-girlfriend nor I care about Valentine's Day. It's the same for both of us, it's just annoying.

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