Is it normal that i am scared to death?

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Hey, I'm 18 and wondering how I should proceed with my life. My parents are easy going and haven't given me the pressure to get a job. I'm only a junior in highschool so this really depends. I don't have a job at the moment I'm actually looking for one at the moment.

Here's the issue, my girlfriend is having family issues. I don't want to go into detail but long story short she wants me to move out so she can come live with me someplace. She lives around an hour away from me in another state. I really don't know what to do. I'm really scared.

-Thanks for the help

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    Plus, her demand is unfair. She has to learn to solve her own problems in life instead of expecting you to solve them for her.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You are in high school and don't have a job? What are you going to use to support the both of you if you aren't living at home, your trust fund?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Stay in school, kid! Finish high school and then try to go to college or a trade trade school. Follow your hopes and dreams! Don't give up your goals for someone else! Sure, it's sad if she's having problems, but don't let her guilt trip you into giving up on yourself.

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    It's a bad idea, one that will ruing your life. The best, talk to your parents and see if she can move in with you guys... if that's even an option. If not, don't make a decision you will regret.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Don't do it: other than that I can only second gypsysailor's advice

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