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I am a 25 year old guy, and ever since my teens, I've been sexually attracted to older, masculine, hairy men.
I tried dating girls but it never worked. I only get turned on by older men.
Do I have a "daddy" issue? Why am I attracted to old men, and is that normal?
Many gay relationships have a large age gap, of the 3 gay couples I know two of them have a 20+ age gap so in my experience you're pretty normal.
Funny, I'm in the 45+ group and I like the younger guys. Mmmm, interesting.
I think its normal - everyone has their preferences. I hope you find someone that you truly love and who respects you for who you are :)
I'm wondering why this has so many not normal votes . its not like he's underage . weird .
I have always dated men at least 15 years senior. Its normal. The older they are, the more appreciative they will be, thats what arouses me, a mature gentleman giving you ample attention and appreciating your youth like no teenager can do. I love it when my bf appreciates my youth every minute of the sex, he eats me out, rims me, loves every bit of me, and he is 20 years senior. I love that and its normal.
As an older man (55) I occasionally find handsome young men attractive but I think it's more because my first lover was a boy about my age. We were both very young about 11 or 12 and we were really in love physically as well as emotionally and he was very handsome. So I often think about him when I see a handsome young man and it makes me happy to think about him. But I'm not gay at least I don't think so I love women and have been with many and never another man.
I guess it's safe for me to post then, Im only 41. What exactly is it about a big saggy scrotum that turns you on? Maybe you could try putting a little cheese up your nose next time you try being with a woman and because sweaty balls kinda smell like cheese it might trick your mind into liking pussy. good luck
Im twenty two and my husband is 37 were getting mArried so no theres nothing wrong with u,,,,gay or straight age is a number and as long as it makes u happy within urself thats all that matters :)
I don't see how it's any different from a 25 yr old straight girl to like older men.
@equestrian
Glad to hear there are girls who are into older guys too.
I grew up in a traditional mom and dad family, but dad was always out partying and had a drinking problem when I was a child.
I think it is somehow related...
Thanks for your input guys.
Yes, I am gay (to clarify for those who did not seem to get it from my topic description).
I am thankful for all the supportive comments. It can be difficult to be different (not only gay but also liking daddies) in this judgemental society.
I wish I had a girlfriend 20 years younger than me. So yes, you're normal.
Its totally normal.
First of all, if you're gay that's also normal.
Second, as a chick, I LOVE older men. They're more experienced and fun and risque. I have a thing for them. I however DID have daddy issues. My dad ran off when I was 9 and I was raised by my mother. As a result, and according to Sigmund Freud, I go for older men to feel the safety and bond that I never had with my father. Do I believe it? yeah. I dont want to, but I know its the truth.
If you had issues like mine growing up, you MIGHT have "daddy issues". But at the end of the day, age is just a number.
I think your fine ! :) I accidentally click the wrong button. I'm sorry. But to be 100% clear I strongly believe your normal.
ya it's normal-I was drawn to older guys too when I was younger and still am.
no you don't have 'daddy issues' you just appreciate maturity and the ideal form of a man is a 'father-figure' type.
that's also the archetype we've created in our culture-think of all the authoritative characters on tv/cartoons, they've always been some wise middle-aged guy.
enjoy it and go with it-the older dudes will appreciate it too because they think they're over the hill and their sex life is over.
I mean guys in their 40-50s, that's my limit.