Is it normal that i am too sure my dream partner exists?

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I am a very spiritual person and believe in soulmates and that kind of stuff.

Is it normal I sometimes delay chances of dating other people whom would be into the same interests but that I physically don't feel attracted to (and I dont see myself sleeping with) because I feel I am not attracted to them sexually

I always base my decision that there are way too many fish in the sea. I would say i'm still young (23) but I somehow feel I don't need to rush. And the funny thing is that i've now seen alot of other men whom I never knew existed, but at the same time I always thrive for more.

Is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Maybe you should just fuck a sweet innocent young cancer mid in his tight asshole?

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    • vlrn
      8 years ago

      Ah...a gargoyle. Did someone leave the gates of hell open?

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        Go Fuck Yourself!

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      This is getting ridiculous.

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        Go Fuck Yourself!

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        • Darkoil
          8 years ago

          You're a virgin aren't you?

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago

      Go Fuck Yourself!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you think a soulmate is all about and centers on the outside appearance of another person, then I think you will never find yours. Many a person has ended up with someone that they weren't particularly attracted to, after they got to know them as a person.

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    • vlrn
      8 years ago

      Thats what ive been told alot.

      The only thing I can say to that is that from my experience, I usually find the men I 'now' consider my ideal to be someone I wouldn't have found attractive at first (although they werent exactly ugly either).

      And then the ones usually with shiny and pretty appearances never seem to have personalities I like in the end. And I always feel like its such a loss.

      But the worst thing is that I get too distracted by other possibilities.

      Would that be considered Superficiality?

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I believe Superficiality is judging someone on their looks, not character. Unfortunately, we all do it and it takes a certain amount of willful intent NOT to do it. Just because a guy or gal is carrying a few extra pounds doesn't mean they aren't a perfect fit in every other way. But if you judge them on their looks and write them off immediately, you'll never know.
        Everyone gets distracted by other possibilities; that's why they cheat or have trouble committing. Again it may take a conscious effort to investigate one's current circumstances fully before deciding to move on.

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