Is it normal that i can't stop worrying about this so much?

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Since I was younger I've always felt like a man, even tough on the outside I am not. And lately, more than before,I've been thinking about my future and what I would do; if I'd get surgery or I'd find a way to deal with this. But I'm not certain if I'm transgendered or not. I'd like to be a man, but something is kinda holding me back. And I'm like "No, that will never be you" And I cannot stop thinking about it! It's so frustrating, and it interferes with my schoolwork and social life. I can't find a way to stop worrying.
Thanks for listening. Sorry if it's kinda long :S

Go talk to a professional. 21
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  • lolol555
    11 years ago

    O.O I'm the same!
    Wait a while, try not to let it get in the way but have a long think about it. If you really can't decide for yourself, talk to a professional about it. Once you've made your decision wait a while longer to see if you stick with it and are comfortable... Then take action, if any.

    I really wish the best for you, it's incredibly hard when you don't know and aren't completely comfortable with your gender.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    You could seek therapy for this problem. They wouldn't be able to give you all the answers, but help you reach the correct answers on your own. I saw do whatever makes you happy!

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