Is it normal that i did something i really regret on webcam?

I have this FaceBook friend who is a guy from Japan. I met him on a pen-pal site but I've never met him in person. He's 21 and I'm 18. Well, A couple months ago, we were chatting and eventually it progressed to dirty talk, and he sent me a picture of his, you-know-what. I have to admit, I really like him. Also, as there are no guys in my area that I have these feelings for, he was like my escape from the loneliness I feel within - I've never had a boyfriend or even kissed.

Well, last night I did something I regret. After months of persuading me to show him my body, I finally gave in, because he threatened that if I didn't then he would stop talking to me. So I showed him my boobs on FaceTime. I'm not proud of it, and I feel used... I can't help feeling like this could come back to haunt me, and I don't want anybody I know to find out... I know that he'll keep asking me for more and more and I'm afraid that if I don't, then he will either stop talking to me or screenshot it and send it around. Luckily, I didn't show my face in the video. Please help! I really, really like him, but I don't like him pressuring me, and I'm afraid to do it again for fear of it coming back to me.
What should I do if he asks me for more? Truth is, if I was with him in person it would be a different story, it's just that I find the internet too risky. In a way I wanted to as well, but another even bigger part of me was screaming that it was a bad idea, yet I did it anyway. What should I do? Whenever I think of last night I feel sick to the pit of my stomach at how stupid I am.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • apparack

    You probably didn't like the pressure, and he's wrong for pushing you. You're right, it is different on the internet than real life. It's more like a peep show over the internet, less respect and privacy. Don't feel bad though, nearly EVERY teen has made this mistake nowadays. Just let him go. It's highly unlikely you'll meet him and he doesn't respect you like he should. Dump him.

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  • Holzman_67

    He's a jerk

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  • BlackyHancock

    - he does not respect you
    - not a good idea to do it again
    - maybe cut off all contact because he sounds like a creep and accept the consequences?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Just forget about him.

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  • thegypsysailor

    You sure are easily manipulated. Best get control of yourself or your life is going to be a disaster.
    If something isn't comfortable for you, DON'T DO IT. If this guy stops talking to you because you won't go against your best instincts, then fuck him; he's not worth a moment's thought.
    FRIENDS do not try to get friends to do things that are against their better judgement.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    If someone ever threatens to leave you for not doing uncomfortable sexual acts show them the door.

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  • JackRoberts

    Be happy with yourself and clearly doing these acts for this guy isn't making you happy so you should stop talking to him and wait until you meet the right guy who would cherish every single moment he has with you, I've never done had sex but I've hugged girls and hugs are amazing so yeah *hugs you*.

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  • Lonely2

    Dont worry about it...whats he gonna do post a pic of your tits...you know how many tits are on the internet

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  • IndianaRose

    You are easy.

    Secondly unless you make him mad or something i doubt it will come bk n bite you in the ass

    However.

    Now youve showed him your boobs with yo easy ass hes gonna ask for more and expect more. well done.youll be fingering on cam in no time.

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  • LittleGirl-BASHED-and-RAPED

    Choices have consequences I don't blame the guy in slightest I would have done the same thing

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  • SuMaFTW

    Not just showing him your boobs, but the whole idea of falling for a guy on the internet is completely stupid.

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