Is it normal that i don’t know what to do with my life?

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I don’t know how to explain this or if anybody will understand, I’m not very good at putting my thoughts into words (I think it’s an adhd thing lol). My life kind of sucks right now, I wake up late and sit in bed all day on tiktok. I don’t have many friends and don’t hang out with people much, I feel like they all hate me. I play saxaphone in marching band but I’m exceptionally bad at that too, I don’t even really like it that much. I don’t like to do anything. I don’t know what I want to do with my life but I know it’s not this. Im worried that even if I do get more friends or any actual hobbies I still won’t be happy. I might just be dramatic but I’m just confused right now.

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  • Jh9856
    1 year ago

    You should get into blacksmithing as a hobby.tiktok will only turn you into a mindless fucktard.

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  • malaparte
    1 year ago

    Am 28, have adhd and still don't know what I'm doing. Sometimes, even if it's something stupid, I think you just have to pick something and set some kind of goal, that way you can say that at least you did something. Anything is better than a whole lot of nothing.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    Same

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    • h0tcrazyb1tch
      1 year ago

      We should be friends

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    You've got plenty of time to figure things out. You mentioned being in marching band so I'm going to assume you're in high school. No high schoolers have anything figured out. This is stuff you don't need to worry about for another few years

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    • h0tcrazyb1tch
      1 year ago

      I’m glad to hear this lol, I just don’t want to “waste my teenage years” whatever that’s suppose to mean

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    1 year ago

    Maybe try out lots of different things to find a hobby you like.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    I feel ya. Best thing is to stay busy. When you sit around alone too long you get in your head too much.

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  • kelili
    1 year ago

    If you do not have to worry about food, shelter and clothing then you're good. You're just bored because you have no particular interest right now but in some years you'll probably look back at those days as happy days, when the real problems hit in.

    Maybe find a job and you'll be less bored.

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    Yeah, that's because you are dramatic.

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