Ask Your Question today
I am 18 y.o., I had 2 relationships before, but now I just don't find anyone attractive. IDK why, I just don't really see anyone as attractive, and I only see their flaws...
And maybe the OP doesn't want to marry someone and have kids. Even then it isn't a must because people marry and have kids with people they aren't all that attracted to all the time!
It is not a must, darling.
First off don't call me darling. And yes it is a must to be attracted to the person you marry unless you don't marry for love in which case that's ridiculous and almost always results in divorce. Use your noggin kid.
Oh, sorry, would you like me to call you sweetie instead? Lol. No, it doesn't "almost always" result in a divorce. There are a lot of marriages that last even when one of the spouses or both don't love each other. This isn't even the point. The point is is that people still marry and have kids, despite not loving each other, regardless if it ends in divorce. Seems like YOU are the one who needs to use their brain, genius. Also, for someone who tells me to use my brain, your comment lacks most of the necessary punctuation. Here's a tip: If you're going to call someone stupid, at least be grammatically correct, sugarplum.
Enit, apparently not participating in some on the most normal things in the world is "normal" now.
Are you talking sexually attractive, or generally attractive? If the former, look up Demisexual. Took me a long time to realize that the description of it matched me perfectly. I know who I find cute or attractive at a high level, but have absolutely no sexual interest in them unless I get to know them first. Then maybe.
I call it "way too". Waytoo thin, too over weight, too blond, too many tattoos body piercings etc
Hey people, turns out I just had a bout of depression, stuff changed since then, still thanks for the replies
Yeah it’s normal, I actually see this as disengagement. It has alot to do with what else is going on in your life as to how you perceive other people and how happy you are in yourself. If you like yourself, that’s a good start, the rest is temporary in an ever changing spectrum of perspective over the years. For example, your experiences in life will mean you’ll relate to others with similar experiences and attraction can be found through that. Sometimes you will get into phases of your life where you will have to challenge yourself to dig a little deeper, under the surface if you like, to find the beauty and attraction, it won’t be instantaneous
I think I've been attracted to maybe 10 men my whole life and I'm in my 30s now. I'd say it's normal sometimes it's harder for people to find others attractive.
It's normal though I'm the opposite I find some attractive and some that aren't attractive.
It used to be this way but now I just don't find anyone, IRL or not, attractive... All I see are flaws, whether in their physicality or their personality. And I don't even look good so I can't really have standards.
Sexuality can change throughout your life, it might stay this way or it might change again.
Are you familiar with Asexuality and Aromanticism? They are the absence of sexual attraction and the absence of romantic attraction, they can (but don’t always) overlap.
This website is a good source if you want more information:
https://www.asexuality.org/