Is it normal that i don't like dancing(girl)

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Whenever I go to weddings with family, I feel very uncomfortable dancing in front of everyone. I feel like I'm being judged constantly and I feel very awkward. Everyone in my family thinks it's weird that I refuse to dance since I am a girl and I am expected to love dancing. I can sort of dance with friends once I warm up to them, but it's difficult. Maybe because I used to get insulted on my dancing. Any ideas on how I could change?

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  • debbiedowner
    10 years ago

    I'm a girl and I hate dancing. I think it makes people look idiotic and it's pointless. Now if it's some kind of cultural or classical dancing, okay, I can see the skill and merit, but when music is playing and people move around because they think it's awkward to stand still, I'm just like... yeah, what is this accomplishing?

    I do hate how women are expected to love dancing.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    I feel awkward dancing if it's the daylight and I'm not with my close family. I prefer to dance in nightclubs where it is dark and home in my mirror.

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      I actually would rather dance not around family

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    A girl that hates dancing! Were have you been all my life?

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Haha well a lot of guys don't like it. But for a girl it seems unheard of!

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    You dont need to dance to be attractive there is things like good conversation and a Good personality you sound like that A real nice Girl Love!

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Thanks:) yeah, I just wish I had that awesomeness ability to just break out in dance randomly haha. Something is so cool about being so spontaneous!

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    I can't dance. I do like watching others do it though. Its something I really wish I could do, but alas :(

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      I'll show u tthe mattress mombo

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      • hiiiiiiiiiii
        10 years ago

        .... O_O

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Exactly. It really is awesome to watch and I really wish I had that "swag" lol that sounded weird...

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    I like dancing girls woooohoooo *makes it rain*

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  • lightfagami
    10 years ago

    I hate it too. I feel awkward and feel like I don't 'do it right', even when it is at things such as weddings. Yes, it obviously has something to do with your confidence - especially if you used to be criticised for your dancing. I just think if it's not a major part of your life, you don't need to worry about it. But it's completely normal.

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Haha I wish u could tell that to my family. Everyone in my family loves dancing but me. They think there is something mentally wrong with me I think.

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    Also I bet you don Drink which is good I find that attractive in a girl since alot of them get drunk and start acting foolish thats when a lot of them like to dance crazy.

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Thanks:) yeah, don't drink a whole lot. I just can't seem to have the right moves...and even when I try, someone knocks me back down telling me that I look like some dying animal or something completely insulting like that....

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  • Hottigene
    10 years ago

    Just be honest and tell them you dont like dancing theres nothing wrong about this everyone has there own things they like and dont like Love!

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  • Jeaneathean
    10 years ago

    Not everyone is a dancer. I hate it.

    It is very hard if you are even slightly self-conscious.

    Not sure how you could change. It's essentially a confidence issue, isn't it?

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    • hiiiiiiiiiii
      10 years ago

      Yeah, to me it is. I'm glad there is someone else out there would doesn't like dancing!

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