Is it normal that i don't like my birthday?
I'm not afraid of getting old. I'm only 18 now. But i don't like my birthday. IIN?
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I'm not afraid of getting old. I'm only 18 now. But i don't like my birthday. IIN?
It's perfectly normal - imo. What's so good about birthdays anyway? Celebrate that you got to live another year? Okay, I buy that. But it's still proof of the passing away of time. And our time on this earth is limited. It's no fun to get older. All you get is extra responsibilities, and less time to live. So I'm with you on this one: whether you're 18 or 60, birthdays are no fun!
What about the parties? All I get on my birthday is some free sushi at my favorite restaurant Ò.Ó grrrr see i added eye brows to that angry face :3
I think it's normal to some extent. I also have grown to hate my birthday over the years, mainly because it doesn't get celebrated. People seem to forget that I even have a birthday yet, I do my best to wish them well when their birthdays come. At some point when was a kid, my family stop giving me parties. I got different excuses for it: 1. That I had no friends which was a lie, 2. That because I was older that I didn't need to have my birthday celebrated. Apparently, only little kids deserve to have birthday parties! (etc.) O_o
Idk I never liked my bday either plus no one never remembers it or I get dump on it
no you are only 18? Well I guess it depends what country you are from. If you are from a sick, poor country and no one lives long yes. If you live in a country where most people are fed no.
What day is your birthday? I know people born near Christmas or other holidays who feel that they don't get the attention others do.
Could it be that it's at the beginning of summer, when everybody's too busy going on vacation, and getting ready for July 4th, to think about yor birthday? If so, then offer to chip in for your own birthday cake for the July 4th party. Better lat than never. You deserve your day.
I don't think it's normal at that age, no. Do you dislike the attention? Do you have negative associations with your birthday? Do your friends have better celebrations than you, making you feel inadequate? Those are all good reasons. If you don't have a good reason, then I don't think it's normal. It isn't a bad thing, but it isn't normal :P