Is it normal that i don't like my girlfriend to party without me?

I always worry about my girlfriend when she's out... she's in college and I'm in highschool still... I'm worried she'll hook up with another dude get in trouble or get hurt. she thinks were gonna get married and I would love that but only if she can stay faithful. am I crazy?

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  • No dude listen im in the same boat as you and ik it sucks yur perfectly normal

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  • ragefultuna

    He's worrying it's perfectly normal he isn't being controlling or over possessive he cares about her a lot so he's worrying.... It's normal now stop being dumb everyone

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  • fumaswim18

    how in the hell is that posessive? I just said I worry y'all dumb

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  • Pilot

    42 year old dad here. What you feel is normal.

    Note: To anyone that debase his concerns your either evil or stupid.

    It's tough my friend to mentally control the thoughts you think & what you emotionally feel, indeed it is. I've been their as adult. This is the time you man up and trust her that's what's best for you most of all and it'll protect your relationship from your position. If she does nothing wrong your all is well and you caused no conflicts. If she screws up be their as a friend and make a man's decisions how you'll respond by staying with it by working through it or allowing her to grow on her own accord. Anything you do to cause problems only close the doors slowly.

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  • i think that this is normal. i went through this with my boyfriend. but i mean ur either being paranoid or you just dont trust her. and w/o trust there is no relationship, i say,u should just trust her,and hopefully things go out well. best of luck!

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  • rosenbaumj0425

    wow fuck her ^ im actually going through the same shit my gf just went to college and is like drinking at partied with other guys and like i know she is in love with me but i just dont like the idea tht she could be flirting with these guys or whatever my advice is just have good communication but try not to control her and shit cuz i know if my girl did that id get annoyed just let her do her thing make sure she tells you whats going on and get excited for when your partying in college hah good luck bro

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  • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

    from what you've described. sounds kinda normal.

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  • tootsiepopper

    my boyfriend and i are still in high school and he hardly lets me go to a friends house with out him freaking outt. if she really wants to marry you, i dont think she would cheat.

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  • random69

    yep normal, just mine decided to try smoking so I am really disappointed with her, fukin sux. my advice if they're worth it keep her or make sure there's someone u kno there or....it may be easier to move on

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  • sometimes1991

    That's normal. My boyfriend and I are in college but go to different schools. We both agreed we don't like watch other to party without each other.

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  • kellstar

    Chances are if she wants to marry u she will try stay faithful but be warned, if your too jealous and controlling she probably will hook up with someone else.
    Understandable you are worried but don't be possessive

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  • I think you are being too possessive, she said she wants to get married didn't she?

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    Yes you are crazy and possessive. Fingers crossed that when she goes out she meets a great guy who will treat her with the love and respect that she deserves.

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