Is it normal that i don't notice the gender of somebody's pet dog?

I am a contractor doing small jobs on other people's properties. Most of my customers have dogs. I am not a fan of domestic pets. They annoy me, so I usually ignore them. I'm NOT an animal hater, and I'm NOT mean to them. I just simply prefer to ignore them and wish they would do the same to me. Because I usually don't pay much attention to the dogs I rarely even notice if the dog is male or female, and I don't care.
The problem is that sometimes when I'm speaking to my customer the conversation might turn to the dog, at which time I may refer to the dog as "he", without really knowing what gender it is. Other times, on the same job, I could just as easily refer to the dog as "she". On such a job my customer will sometimes correct me, and look at me strangely as if they are wondering how stupid can I be, if I can't tell the difference?
It's not that I can't tell the difference, it's that I didn't notice, because I don't care.
Is this normal, or am I an oddball?

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82% Normal
Based on 56 votes (46 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • Tichi

    sometimes it's hard to tell especially if they're really furry

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  • Avant-Garde

    It is better than you going out of your way to see their genitalia. It can really be hard to tell I'd they have very long hair. You sound fine to me. When talking to the owner, ask for their pet's name. That should help.

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  • Zetawolf

    I voted "Not Normal"....but based on how I personally see dogs since I work with them for a living. That said, I can see why some people see dogs not really as a gender but more as a sexless pet (or WORSE....a "furry child"). Besides, sometimes (especially with neutered dogs) they have a lot of coat and it's hard to tell.

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  • Couman

    It's normal not to notice, sure. But it does seem strange to use a gendered pronoun (especially "she") when you don't actually know.

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  • Sog

    I think the owner will understand if you didn't happen to notice their dog's genitalia.

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  • "whats its name?" let them lead

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  • anti-hero

    Normal, but if the dog is nearby I will look if it comes up in conversation.

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