Is it normal that i don't really go out?

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Is it normal that I don't really go outside? I'm in my final year of college and I don't go out. I go to class and doodle in my notepad all day, do some assignment work, go home and do nothing. I might hang out with friends on the weekend but I've never been to a college party. Never spent the night in the pub. Never been to a club. I haven't dated anyone in over 2 years.
Thing is, I know if I went to these social gatherings I would hate them. I feel terribly out of place in a room of people. Even at cons, where I'm surrounded by people who share my interests! And if I date again, I just know my partner will expect sex from me, and I really don't operate for that. I'm a seriously slow mover in relationships. It's just how I am comfortable. So if I date someone who isn't patient or has higher sexual needs than I do, it's not going to end well.

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  • csiwholocked33
    11 years ago

    you're just an extreme introvert. I am too, and that's completely okay. :) ♥

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    • Leviathanel
      11 years ago

      damn straight, introvert pride. don't forget to express yourselves my brothers' or else we'll go a little nutty.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    I almost could have written this myself i think....

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  • twistedsoul
    11 years ago

    You know what, its totally okay to be like that. My older brother is the same way. Well, i guess similar haha. He goes to work, and only goes out to get groceries, sometimes video games, alcohol (usually christmas time and new years) or weed. He loves to cook, and works out at home and lives a pretty healthy lifestyle. Plus, he saves a lot of money by not going to the bar. And he seldom goes to the theatres, cause lets face it, some movies nowadays are overly hyped and show you almost all the good scenes in the trailer.

    Some girl, would love to be with someone like you. Because not all of them like to party or go out to have a good time. I know i don't...well, not anymore haha

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  • ganesha
    11 years ago

    Shackleford is so right, haha. I feel you..
    It's normal.. I mean alot of people do the things you do, but do not make it a habit!

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't say that it's normal per se but definitely prudent. I mean there's a lot of trouble you'll never get into; problems you'll most likely never have.

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    • Leviathanel
      11 years ago

      one who stands for nothing spends his whole life sitting.

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      • RoseIsabella
        11 years ago

        If it's one of those Zero Gravity massaging recliners from Relax The Back sign me up!

        If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything.

        I've been helping my OCD sister move since las Wednesday and it's still not finished yet. Right now I wanna stand for laziness. :)

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        • Leviathanel
          11 years ago

          i can only imagine.... a recliner so awesome... zero gravity, why get up and go to the washroom when you can levitate there?

          wheelchairs will go out of business.

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          • RoseIsabella
            11 years ago

            LOL!

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