Is it normal that i don't wanna date this guy because...

You're right, don't date him. He deserves better than you.

There are only two possibilities here:

1. You're a troll.
2. You're a spoiled bitch (whose parents also suck BTW).

Which is it?

Working to earn money is ew? You're a fuckin snob.

Stop being so "stuck up." Him earning his money shows his character.

It could work, you may still be able to have a nice relationship. If you don't want him cause he has to work for a living then tell him to quit his job and come live off you. If you live off your parents (who worked for their money..ew) then keep him a secret and you can both live off them from what they give to you. That is of course only if you really do want to try and have a nice relationship.

I can't know the details of where she is coming from but there are young people who must work to help put bread on the family table which is different than say for savings and spending money. There is nothing wrong with work of course you are right. But the reason he has to work is what I think she finds difficult not that he is working.

A snobby trust fund skank internet troll? Ew.

Why would him earning his own money be "ew"?
Would you prefer some child that gets everything from mommy and daddy?

It shows he's responsible, you sound like you think you're a lot better than other people an are given everything you want.

Gimme a T!
Gimme an R!
Gimme an O-L-L!
Oh, hell! It's a TROLL!

Life experience I guess. It's sure there in your posts. I think the OP is a nice young person who is advantaged and asking the right questions as someone who likes a young guy from a different economic class. Gutsy and honest of her, don't you think? I do.

Okay we'll speaking from personal experience I'm 18 and I started working at the age of 15, my dad works and earns a fair bit of money but i wanted to work for my own money to know i earned it and I was recently seeing a girl whose parents both worked and she could have easily lived off them as well as the money she made from the modelling that she was doing but she actually went out and got a job so she didn't have to live off her parents and knew she was earning her money. What I really liked about her apart from her awesome personality was the fact that she was hardworking and actually wanted to know that she what she had was well deserved due to hardwork.
I believe you can make it work but you just have to realise that this guy is doing what every adult does and working for a living and become comfortable with that fact.

My advice is coming pretty late but I just wanted to say you should go ahead and do what your parents would most approve of. Yes, I feel sorry for the guy, but in the end he is getting the better deal. Don't date him.

I hope someone shoves a chainsaw up your ass

Wow

It's somewhat normal, but he may not always be without money, or you may not always have money, so don't let this get in the way of mutually attraction

You realize people like you are the reason why other people hate rich people right?

I can see why your scared of him asking for money but you should give it a shot, dont be a spoiled bitch, i dont see whats wrong with a working man, unless youd rather have some dumb rich dude who cant perform the simplest of household tasks. but the way i see it, this guy your talking about would be better off without you. "Having been poor is no shame, but being ashamed of it, is."

Well, I think this guy is very lucky that you find him "ew".

Troll stories like this are always funny.

I hope your not serious.

Wtf? You're pretty selfish and stuck up to not want to date someone just because they aren't rich like you. And the fact that you say "ew" to someone willing to work to earn money!? What is wrong with you!? Not everyone has the little perfect rich life you have. If I were him I wouldn't want anything to do with you. You really need a reality check. Wtf...

I seriously hope to God you are trolling you barnyard animal.

I was dating a guy with much financial problems once and this quickly turned me off. I was afraid he would ask me money.

Get over yourself.

its really normal that you think this way.. i know that because i dated one guy like that from my college... i was all "so wat he works and is not like my fren circle" n yea he was a very nice guy. we two were really hitting it..but the money matter does come out as a difference
i was more than happy to pay for our movie dates and everything.. he was also really nice.. would never let me pay alone.. :)
but things are different when one of you grow up with most things, and the other does not. what you take for granted are things he may have to work hard to get. if that turns you off.. well, who can blame you. only you know what you want. dont listen to these ppl..they're jealous coz you got the $$$$ :P

You are aware and thinking of class issues and disparities like being poor because they are there even if they are not pretty. Other posters may not like that but too bad. Nor did you create them. You are just being honest. The question is what you will do.

The answer is maybe nothing other than use this as an opportunity to deepen your awareness. You are not a bad person because you are advantaged whereas he is not. And you are not unwise to sense that the relationship could be difficult and make you the target of disapproval (as you mention) and resentment (from his side & him).

PS you got a low IIN score - I also said it isn't normal but that is for social reasons outside your control, not because of you.

What's sad is that the poll creator will likely just chalk up all these posts pointing out what a horribly stuck-up, snobby, spoiled, bratty bitch she is as just "haters hating because they're jealous" rather than a sign that there is something seriously wrong with her way of thinking. The reason people think you were trolling is because your post is pretty much the embodiment of every spoiled rich girl stereotype condensed into one paragraph. The fact that people honestly thought you were trolling is indicative of just how over-the-top your pretentiousness is.

Wow....yeah no sweetie don't worry. In fact, don't even think on this one because here's the answer: he doesn't deserve a stuck up, snobby, rich, to good for other people bitch like you. I mean really? I work for a living as does most people of the freaking world. Sorry we aren't all "rich and mighty' like you and your parents. My mother grew up with rich parents too. Wanna know what she did? Dated a "low class" citizen, flipped her parents off, and left with him. To this day, they are happily married and making a good living. If you can't see past his living and how he lives or not care what your parents will think of him, then move on and find a rich dude that will gladly serve you, because this guy obviously deserves better.

Uptown girl? hehe You're a troll

I'm a bit confused. Everybody who has a job works to earn money. Why is it "ew" ?

Youre a shallow bitch

Shallow Much!
First of all you dont deserve him if your judging him and second you shouldn't give a fuck what anyones says especially not your parents since by the look of your description it seems as if their bad parents

Sounds like The Karate Kid to me.

Is your name Ally?

What is your gage for normal? Normal people do work for their money. Interesting that your friends don't have to...

Are you Hillary from 'The Fresh Prince of Bel Air'?

Aaahhh the age old romeo and Juliet / crocodile dundee story.

It would be fine to date him. Social status cannot be your defining guide for people around you - he might be great, he might be scum. From what you say about him, he seems nice enough. It's okay to be defensive to a point, but be open and try it out.

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