Is it normal that i dont have good friends..

I am in 2nd year of college but i feel like i havent made good friends till now.There is no one i can trust on or count on if i am in a problem.
When collge started i made a friendA and our thoughts matched and i felt like life is complete but then some stupid people came in her life and our friendship ruined....we were left with normal hi hello.....then i made a new friend X..our friendship continued for a long tym..but one day shit happened and she stopped talking...few days later she was like it will take time for her to be back to normal ..i accepted...in mean time she made a circle of friends and started hanging out wid them and ignored me...i started to have fun with my friend A and thought that things will be normal...but after some time A gave me a major set back and i decided to never talk to her...now i am in a condition where i am left alone and everyone iss having there own circle and fun....I talked about it to X and she supported me for some days but i feel like that I wont get her like the person she was before.....i am trying to be friends with her circle and have succeded to some extent but there is that feeling that its all superficial.
The ques.is will it ever get normal ? Will it take time..?? Please tell me how to combat this situation.

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  • McBean

    I have no good friends either. So I have decided to substitute quantity for quality. IIN is a wonderful pool of bad friends. The negative influence we have on each other is perversely satisfying.

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  • But i want to be friends with X and her group..kindly give me suggestions for that...
    Becoz i hav started feeling dat i should have a girl gang.....so ..
    How can i grow my bonding with them??

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  • pantychaffe

    I hear you. Two things you can do. Gravitate towards your interests, and there you will find people who bond sincerely. Volunteer, you will find true friends there, sharing a goal and dream. Finally smoke weed. Seriously. It brings people together, and its an awesome experience. Don't become a snoop Dogg video, but yea. Just breathe.

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