Is it normal that i dont remember anything before age 10?

I have tried hard recently to remember much of my life before I was 10. I'm now 23 and its not very apparent to me why I can't remember any details. Id say otherwise from 10 on, I have a fantastic memory. Very photographic too. I just don't really understand. Is it normal that I can't think back on childhood days with friends, because I have seemingly no recollection? Only significance is my parents seperation around that age- but I don't remember it ever being something I was too angry/ sad about to be a "tragic" event as they would say when memory is lost.

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  • Freud would say that you've "repressed" it.

    I would say that every lie needs a guiding truth for it to exist. And that you've possibly repressed something.

    "Go see a professional" ®

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    • And no it's not normal.

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  • memmo16

    Amnesia? Or maybe your brain is trying to protect you from bad memories?

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  • Jetwms377

    Well,I am glad I'm not the only one and that you posted this. I forgot most of my childhood before age 10 and even much older. Any memories that I do have are bits and pieces. I even forgot at age 9 my mom remarrying my father for a rededication of vows. Who forgets this? My parents fought a lot and my mom was screaming a lot in my life that I do remember. Perhaps, too painful to remember my childhood. Sad part is the things I do remember are not pleasant. Forgot most of the good. I remember 10 and up for most part, but even have friends I knew in High School bring up stuff and I forgot a lot of High School. I figure if I forgot it there must be a reason it's blocked and don't know that I want to do anything to unblock it.I do wonder sometimes, but learned to live with it.

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  • moni**

    It's strange because I rembember being 2 years old.

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  • DADNSCAL

    Could be either you're repressing bad memories, or good ones. Maybe you were happier before the divorce, and it's easier not to face it. Either way, I agree with the therapy suggestion, because repression isn't healthy, and may have other consequences, such as nightmares.

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  • OnlyOneForMe

    I can't remember anything from 10 back either. :o But I know for a fact my brain is suppressing the memories, because I remember VERY small tiny fragments of my parents fighting, my Dad getting arrested, etc.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Very weird. I can remember as far back as 3 years old or so.

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  • kinklu

    You didn't have electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) did you? One of the drawbacks is that it wipes out your memories.

    My brother seems to remember all kinds of minutiae from when we were young, but I remember educational stuff better, like history, geography, etc. I think he reviews his personal history more than I do.

    Your priorities as to what's important to remember may be more like mine.

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  • Ijustknowimweird

    Try doing hipnotherapy. Repressing memories can be hurtfuk for you

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  • Avant-Garde

    There are many things from my childhood that my mind has gone blank on. The decade I was born in and some of my slightly older years. Perhaps, something traumatic happened to you and your brain blocked out the memories? Hypnotism might be able to uncover what ever it is that was blocked.

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  • ohplease

    Not terribly normal, but I don't know that I would jump headfirst into the conclusion so many others are, that there was some horrific molestation or something that occurred. It sounds like there was trouble at home (your own comments about your sister's memories), so maybe you did block out large uncomfortable swaths of time. You can't even remember any birthdays or holidays when somebody is relating them to you?

    I'm sure it doesn't help, but I have almost no memory of most of middle school or college (no, I was not wasted the whole time). Neither were particularly fun times in my life. And I can't remember what I did last Tuesday, either.

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    • mandy724

      No I can not remember anything. Not even good times. I vaguely remember places but not events :( I wish there were more answers. But my biggest guess is that I have mentally become concious to what I do not want to know and I guess sweep things under the rug as they say. Except now, somebodys vacuumed thay all up and I have no happenings to remember from 10, back.

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      • ohplease

        I can understand why your brain would do that, and I can totally understand the distress that such a huge blank spot where you, according to convention, should have many innocent, happy memories, but- and I really don't want to sound callous here- but if it were really a bad enough period of your life that your brain would systematically cauterize years, would you even want to get those memories back?

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  • mandy724

    I really only just remember places. But not events or situations at places. Its a strange thing I think. I havr a hard time trying to comprehend. I askes my sister a little bit more and she said my parents faught allll the time. I don't remember them fighting until after they were separated.

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  • igiveusexymessage69

    Could you have been molested as a child?

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  • i had that with one year of school, grade 4 , i cant remember one day of it, maybe i was absent the whole year

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  • q25t

    I'm not so sure about the trauma effect. Do you remember anything at all from your childhood before then? Also, if you look at pictures from around that time period, do they bring anything back?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Maybe something really bad happened and your brain is keeping you safe from harm.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    yeah it sounds like it was so tragic your brain was like "fuck this, disassociation time". it happens to kids a lot. they simply block out all the things that make them really sad.

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