Is it normal that i enjoy cuddling with my best friend / bromance?

I'm in my mid-20s and so is my best friend. We're both male and enjoy smoking weed together and getting high. My friend and I are really close, we feel very comfortable with each other and talk to each other about a lot of things. I find him very attractive, he is tatted up and basically has never had a problem getting girls since I've known him. He is currently dating, while I am not. The three of us have mutual friends and we're a really tight group. The problem is I find him very hot and irresistible and I constantly think about him whenever I'm not with him. I consider myself straight but I seriously cannot get him out of my mind, because I always think about what a stud he is. He's a straight up pretty boy, cares a lot about his looks and presentation. He is just so perfect, he is buff, great looking, good personality, very chill because he's high a lot of the times, and his tattoos are so perfect on him. I get him a lot of clothes as gifts, especially sleeveless shirts because I hope for him to wear them whenever I am around.

Now here's the thing... Whenever I hang out with him, I almost always smoke weed with him to get high because that's his favorite thing to do. He always smokes me out, and other times I smoke him out. I enjoy doing that with him because it makes us both feel so good. I feel like we have a very strong bromance because I'm very touchy-feely with him, and he's totally ok with it even though he has a girlfriend and I don't. He always pretends to fall asleep when he's high, so that I'll start touching/shaking him to wake him up to hang out with me. I know he's pretending because he has that cute smirk/smile on his face once I start feeling up on him. I'll literally hug/cuddle/shake/grab him for a good half hour or more before he says something or until he gives in and just gets up to smoke with me some more. He's fallen asleep when we're on vacation, even when his girlfriend was asking him to go to bed, he wanted to stay outside on the couch. It almost always happens when it's just the two of us there, whenever he is home and his girlfriend isn't around, or in my car when I'm driving. Basically anytime we're alone together, because he knows I'll touch and feel up on him if he knocks out. He will purposely announce that like he's going to take a nap or going to sleep. I've shared his bed with him before too after he got so high, I eventually spent the night there and I was holding and cuddling him half the night. Sometimes he'll ask me why I'm spooning him or hugging up on him but he doesn't move me away or anything like that, he just let's me be, or he'll say to me that I'm not even annoying or bothering him, and to try harder. Most of the time though, it's me holding him, and not the other way around. Sometimes if I fall asleep, then he will bother me by shaking me and pulling my hand to get me off of the bed or couch. Is it normal that I love having my best friend in my arms? I just feel like he has such a great body for me to cuddle with too.

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Comments ( 15 )
  • ViolentKitty

    These people are pretty mean; sorry about them.

    Anyways, I think you both are curious. I'm pretty sure you already know you would like to experiment with him, and it seems like he would but he's not too sure. To answer your question, it's not normal for straight men to do this, but it is normal for bicurious or gay men to.

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    • Immune2BS&way2Illuminated

      Yes, the man is hypothetically "gay."

      Now, that is an entirely man-made label that is absolutely ludicrous. You are sexually attracted to him/her, "I'm" a him/her it's all just labels to put people in a hotbox of guilt, shame or moral crisis.

      You want to do that, go ahead just don't ruin his girls relationship unless you feel that is what he want's himself. That is called cock-BLOCKING...and that's not adhering to the brocode at all bromanian.

      Yo, the other guys Violet are all just insecure about their own sexuality that's all..and some are just clowning.

      REALLY THOUGH? I would tell you IMO that this is fake...it just doesn't sound genuine to me...

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    • GreyWulfen

      "These people" is maybe the wrong term, considering it's just a bored troll with multiple accounts.

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  • peterrabbyt69

    Have you sucked each others cocks yet?

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  • Jacob_Zuma_783

    There's a term for that: GAY. I've never seen/heard of straight bros doing that shit.

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  • ilovetoteabagsally

    Disgusting

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  • Kill_All_Perverts

    Yuck, what a pair of girly bois................you two should get married with the OP wearing the bridal gown, ugh...............................

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  • AnemicRoyalty

    Wow, there are a lot of homophobes in the comments. Sorry for all the unnecessary hate. Maybe you and your friend are curious, bi, or gay? I think what you described is "normal" because being straight isn't the only valid orientation.

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    • Cheet0

      True, I mean next time you are together without his girl there, let him get high, then ask him if he wants to mess around..?

      Whatever you do though, leave his girl out of this, if she ever found out, he's sunk...

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  • idontcaree

    I'm not gonna read all those words.

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  • janhuangwl

    why do you post it 3 times

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  • ogrelord

    you both sound like you're experimenting, but since he has a girlfriend right now i wouldn't try to push it further. maybe you could try to bring up the topic of homosexual/gay people and ask him if he would be comfortable with being with another man?

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  • BonerPenis

    A couple of queers

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  • paulthepoes

    Your post quite frankly was a lot of mumbo-jumbo, You should try using proper sentences constructed in such manner that we can actually read them!

    Be brave and use actual paragraphs when writting, you will receive a lot more responses!

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  • Cedric_Diggory

    So did your words also decide to cuddle each other like you two gay bitches? Use paragraphs, for fuck's sake!

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