Is it normal that i envy people who are in a relationship?

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Lately, I've been feeling envious of people who are in a relationship after dealing with a breakup I had months ago. I've been trying to get over her and be single for a while.

My coping is going to a park throwing pebbles and sticks at a lake to deal with these feelings.

What if this starts turning me into some loser incel?

And as time goes by I start being jealous of everyone who still has a relationship I can never get one that will stay long like other people.

I feel like jealously is my answer.

I want help......

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Based on 7 votes (3 yes)
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  • olderdude-xx
    1 year ago

    I suggest you start reading some books on relationships and their issues. That will help you sort though things.

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  • spotato
    1 year ago

    Go improve yourself instead of focusing so hard on relationships and being jealous. Take more hobbies, find ways to make more money, workout, look more presentable, etc. Less people care to talk to you if your shy and closed off. Believe it or not but other things like getting your shit together can be more important than the next partner. Your self worth needs to be higher

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      ive started a hobby and had started to exercise, one month after making this post i started to care more whats more important in life my career.

      after exercising i started to think less of relationships because to me relationships can come much much later in life.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    1 year ago

    even then being single makes me feel lonely and makes me more envious of others

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    You're not really missing out on much, at least judging by the questions that are asked on this site. If this site's at all representative of the average person, then there's no less than a 100% chance that being in a relationship simply means that you're with someone who's cheating on you, hates you, both, or stays with you for personal convenience but they actually don't care at all about you

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    Go to some bars and be social. Get a dog or something.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      im dont go out a lot i dont socialize or mingle with anyone sadly so ill suck at the conversation

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      • litelander8
        1 year ago

        You gotta practice. Or just be happy being alone 🤷🏾‍♀️

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    1 year ago

    so what you're saying is my past behavior is going to predict whats going to happen in my next relationship

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    Well try never having a relationship ever and see how much you hate couples then. I loathe them with a passion, especially young couples. I wish I could throw stones and rocks at THEM.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      here's the thing im not like you who thinks very extreme.

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