Is it normal that i feel scared at night unless my son is with me?

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I'm a young mother (17) and i have a small son and he spends about 2 days a week average here at my house, he lives with my sister most of the time. i feel very scared at night by myself but i feel safe and happy when he spends the night here. usually he sleeps with me in my room when he comes over, and i always sleep so peacefully, except when he wakes me up lol. i have insomnia because my sons' bio-father drugged and raped me so im afraid of going to sleep.

is it normal that my son stops me from being scared at night? just knowing hes there with me, and loves me, makes me feel better and i can sleep easier, i wish he could always be with me. :(

is it weird he makes me feel safer, because normally its the child who feels safe when their mom is there but for me its the opposite. i feel like somehow hes protecting me when im with him.

thanks for reading.

xx

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  • Ibelievethis
    11 years ago

    Yeah I know what you mean. you know your children couldn't do anything should some crazed lunertic break in but you just feel safer with someone with you. xx

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    How old is he?

    I think you've already answered this question for yourself. "...Just knowing hes there with me, and loves me, makes me feel better and i can sleep easier, i wish he could always be with me"

    It's normal to feel safe when someone else is around, especially if it's someone one that makes you feel warm and loved and distracts you from the fear. :)

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  • Phycokitty
    11 years ago

    I feel more peacfull having my baby's crib next to my bed

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  • zariena28
    11 years ago

    Perfectly normal :)
    Return the favor to your son by rubbing directly on his penis head or purple knob while giving him a bath. Comfort for comfort.

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    • summerdays
      11 years ago

      EW WTF o_O

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    • iluvboth
      10 years ago

      Might I also add this suggestion? You should sleep together naked, Let him suck your titties While you play with his little hard dick.
      Do you ever do this With your four yo dick?

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