Is it normal that i got aroused by my cousin?

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I was recently staying over at my aunt's house, and I accidently walked in on my cousin (she's 22) masturbating. We were both shocked and startled, but I explained to her that it was an accident (it really was) and I apologized. She said she understood and that everything was fine. We agreed not to tell anyone. The only thing is, when I saw her, I got an erection (she didn't see), and I've been getting really turned on thinking about it. She was extremely attractive, and I get so hard and I feel the urge to masturbate, and when I'm doing it, I imagine her in the shower fingering herself, and the two of us having sex. Now, I would NEVER act on these fantasies, and I would never even tell her about them, but is it OK that I get these fantasies?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago | pl

    I'm surprised at how many people don't realize it's legal to marry and have sex with your first cousin.

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    • Bigdog23
      6 years ago

      R u sure is 100%normal to have sex with your first cousin

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    • hnbout
      12 years ago

      I'm becoming a BIG fan of yours!

      Luv ya'

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    • Sidekickz
      12 years ago

      in europe its not !
      some people on this website come from other countries!
      like me im from holland

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        You might want to recheck your facts.

        <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/6424337.stm" rel="nofollow">http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/6424337.stm</a>

        Unless the BBC is wrong... at least three countries in europe even tolerate SIBLING incest let alone cousin-sex. (including yours)

        As long as both parties are consenting adults
        - France has no laws against incest, but bars siblings from marrying.
        - The Netherlands no longer prosecute over it
        - Sweden even made it legal for siblings to marry

        So if you're in a country that doesn't even care if consenting siblings are having sex with each other .... somehow I doubt they'll even bat an eye at a pair of cousins. *shrug*

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        • Sidekickz
          12 years ago

          oh thats great :P!

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  • lease
    12 years ago

    I will be really pissed off at you if you DONT ask to join in next time...

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  • ya-lyublyu-tebya
    12 years ago

    You saw an apparently attractive woman masturbating, it's only natural to become aroused, your body doesn't know or care whether you're related.

    As long as you don't act on it *then i gets weird*, perfectly normal.

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  • Durrtyunk
    13 years ago

    not normal, but apparently out of all the family members, the cousin is the one you'd likely get most attracted to, so as rare as it may be to be attracted to your cousin its more normal than your mom or sister

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  • rlt152
    9 years ago

    When I was very young I got aroused to just the thought of some of my cousins.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    As ling as u won't act on them, it's fine!!!

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  • Reina
    13 years ago

    Dude, your cousin is kind of reckless about masturbating, and really she should apologise to you. I don't think you should be getting those fantasies but it is not unreasonable that you are. Still, your fantasies may grow into feelings which will be difficult to detach and unless your family agrees to an incestuous relationship, it is wise avoiding it by focusing your sexual urges on someone that will not cause you to have damaged children.

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  • Janice109
    13 years ago

    No this is not normal. Go seek therapy fast.

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