Is it normal that i hate my fiancés cat

It's normal to feel that way. Seems like you're tired of putting your time, effort, and money into this animal that you see is slowly suffering.

In this situation, I say hold on for a little bit longer. You've already put this much effort into her, and she probably has very little time left, so giving her the things she needs and continuing to show her it's a safe happy, household for her is the best option.

As a huge cat lover myself, I don't see this as abnormal. You can't help it if you're not fond of certain types of animals, and you can't force yourself to fall in love with one.

I'm glad to see that you still seem to at least have empathy for the cat and don't want to harm it like some people who dislike certain animals do.

I agree with Cuntsiclestick that making the end of the cat's life the best it can possibly be and humanely end her suffering when it's time (which seems like it is likely approaching) is the best you can do.

I kind of had a similar situation with a horse I had that was very hard to handle and downright dangerous under saddle, whose antics got me sent to the hospital once and was just always very miserable to be around (even multiple professional trainers gave up on him). It was hard for me to have many positive feelings towards him as he could be really unpleasant, but with his issues he would've likely ended up in a bad place had I ever gotten rid of him. I retired him for the rest of his life and made sure he was safe and well cared for, and have never regretted that decision.

As Cuntsicklestick said, this cat is not likely to live a quality life much longer by the sounds of it so I would just tough it out until the vet recommends putting her to sleep.

There is nothing wrong with preferring one pet to another, like people some animals are friendly and sync up with you whilst others are annoying and kind of suck.

Hang in there.

It's not your cat, you didn't want a cat, it's perfectly understandable that you don't love it.

Poor kitty.

Very normal for me cause I hate fucking cats. I went with a babe who was in love with hers and talked about it constantly. LATER

My wife had a poodle that hated me. It would lick my toes in my sleep it was so annoying. When Id come home the dog would bark for about an hour. Anytime id walk near it it would run. And I was supposed to put this poodle on a leash and take it outside to go shit when my wife was at work. After just a few times it started flopping around like a fish and got out of the leash and ran straight into the road and got hit by a car. Tragically it survived. But I was able to convince my wife to give it to her parents where it was mostly kept in a cage.

Put it in a bag and throw it in the river. Tell him it ran away.

You people are sick. This lady is probably abusing her cat, and you say this is normal. Terrible.

If you hate her and see her as just a sick expensive nuisance, then why did you think "I’m just afraid for the day I find her no longer breathing" ?

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So are you guys gonna ruin a dog's life next?