Is it normal that i hate my life?

I'm a girl
I wear clothes from hot topic and pulp.
I love emocore, screamo and vocaloid music.
I love drawing manga by hand or photoshop.
I love to read manga and watch anime.
I like to temporally dye my hair neon colours.
im always nice to people

But for some reason 99.9% of people at school hate me. I go there everyday to get bullied. It is mental abuse and stealing and vandalism. They have called me a lot of really hurtful things, they draw all over my things in sharpie, and in P.E they steal my socks.
the teachers do not care.

Then when I come home my parents get annoyed at me for telling them about it. They tell me "don't take it out on us! Do something about it!"

is it normal to hate my life?

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71% Normal
Based on 80 votes (57 yes)
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  • LOUi_CUDi

    damm i feel sory 4 u.. Dont wory ur just a teenager u still got ur whole life ahead.

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  • Tann

    I felt very alone in highschool as well but ever since university my life has been great. I meet some amazing friends that I still have and after university I met my husband who is the best thing to have happened to me. Just be yourself, treat others like u want to be treated. Trust me I look @ ppl that I went to highschool with on facebook and trust me for some of them highschool was the highlight of their lives. Please know there is life after highschool.

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  • You sound awesome. Why don't you go to my school? I say ignore those people. Your better than them

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  • fissionmailed

    It's okay, you're just Emo

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  • Normal. People fear what they do not understand. Man I love cliches.

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  • sunbae

    I am kinds like you,except I don't like hot topic and Emory music and don't dye my hair, in any case Idk where you live but if you then find your own crowd. I have and its pretty fun about the bullying you can tell the kids parents or some thing, go to the police,they are stealing from you...

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader

    Yes, there are really bad people all over the world, you can get bullied and on work.
    One way to prevent this is to let them know you're not going to take it from the first time they try to bully you.
    If you're going to do nothing about it they will see you as weak (you can almost call it prey) and bully you feel better about themselves.
    And many people are sheep and therefor follow.
    Dont worry high school is full of douchebags. You will meet good people, people like you!

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  • Don't worry, Just think one day you'll be higher than any of them. just be yourself, and don't try to please others, but yourself.

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  • MiniMoo53

    Don't worry. You basically said my entire life story for school. Just stand up straight and proud, and if pople want to mess with you again, say something comical, like "Sir, calm you need to clam your tits down!" I've tried it. It worked for me. xDD

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  • Anon.26

    Sounds like a tough time. Do your parents know?<BR><BR>Sounds like most of the people at your school are not nice. Know how that can be. Try to find one or two people you can hang out with, this can take forever, but it can happen. <BR>It took me a few years to find a few friends in school.<BR><BR>If any of theft/ damage of property happens outside of school you could consider getting the police involved, if the teachers do nothing.<BR><BR>If you don't have friends to keep you there, maybe a fresh start at a new school would help? Also counseling helps after a tough time like this.

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  • melancholybaby

    From the description you provided you sound like you would be classed as an 'emo' or a 'scene'. I'm not judging you here at all and I don't find anything wrong with how you are, but other people like to judge. I have the same issues just because I dress differently and listen to different music. I learnt to just ignore people, it's much easier that way.

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  • Blood.Rose

    im the same way, but i dont care, and if they go to far i hurt them =^-^=

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  • Whatever it is, just know that the rest of the world is not like that. Sometimes we feel bounded by only the small world we live in, but when we grow up, we will see. I promise you ;)

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  • zchristian

    I like to learn about things i dont understand no fear here...

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  • Skitzo1

    Get more brightly coloured clothes from different places im not a girl so i cant shed any light? Maybe get clothes from New Look (depending on where your from?) Dress brighter = Look nicer, Look Nicer = More approachable, More approachable = More conversations, More conversations = More friends, less bullies, Less bullies + More friends = Happiness in school. Maybe listen to different music around people, and in general? Improve your mood a little? i would suggest Bob Marley, Ill Biskits but thats me. If people bully you be more charismatic, when they write on your s**t dont just sit there, tell them to do one, do similar "pranks" on them. They crave a reaction, i did when i did stuff like that, the bigger the reaction, the more hilarious is was. I like manga and anime, though none of my friends know that, cos they would think im a geek, only my best friend knows. Show some people your artistic side i guess, it adds character and personality. When you get bullied, dont be so gloomy about it, just think "why would i care? once i leave school im never gonna see these suckers again anyway, why waste my fun at school moping around like ee-orr from winnie the pooh, cos when you do that, not many people would approach you. If they steal your socks, steal their underwear, or put their stuff in the shower, if they try and do it? one up them! keep spare clothes in your locker!! If the teacher dont care, call them a bad word, that will get their attention! But your mum and dad are right, its cliché but "man the f**k up!" stop letting people do this to you. If you dont do anything, they know they will get away with it, if someone says something to you, spit on their face. School isnt a daydream, its survival. Wear your ovaries on the outside for goodness sake. When people say bad things to you, even a "yeah whatever" makes all the difference. Dish some abuse their way. You might think ohh i dont want to lower myself to their level, thats stupid. Your not lowering yourself, its funny when you make fun of other people and they do the same, its banter, who cares if they are serious, your not. You may be nice to people, but just being nice doesnt get you respect in school, its gets you walked over. I hope this gets through to you, i wasnt quick enough to tell it to my cousin whos in the same situation, although she isnt an emo person or whatever.

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    • noodle76

      i can not believe that is an excuse for advise! it sounded like bullying.

      this person is trying to get help. resorting to their level causes more bullying, if its a lot of people your outnumbered and that dosent help at all. being nice to people is what you should do. retaliation is stupid. your basically telling her to turn into a bully. swearing at teachers? oh yeah sure if you want to get a bad reputation. that stuff goes on your permanent record.

      also "emo person" and "geek"?! stereotype much,you called her two insults in one.

      so yeah become a bully, get a bad permanent record and change who you are. great advice there idiot.

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      • Skitzo1

        Stereotype? she stated she likes "emo"core music? Its not stereotyping to take a hint, and geek? reading manga is referred to as Otaku -> Japanese for more or less geek. When you are nice "you get stepped on" It isnt all andy pandy in school, its more or less surivial, my cousins best friend followed your advice of being nice to people and not "standing up for herself" she took it, you know what else she took? enough pain killers to kill a bull elephant, yeah she killed herself, i was close friends with her, im sorry but, if thats what happens when you be nice constantly yeah sure you have your dignity and your morals, your pride. But pride is the deadliest of the seven sins, a life is above all else. When did i ever say i was giving advice? Im not telling her, advising her, nothing, i merely wrote something down, she can overlook it, i dont care, im just voicing experiences i have met with people, and wrote them down, nothing more, infact i dont reccomend her to follow these, personally. Its her life, her choice, i would be happier if she chose what she done on her own, and make her own choices, because if she follows what we say and it doesnt work out she will blame us. And for the record, if someone says to you "go hand yourself!" and you do your option and dont reply, thats gravy. But it isnt bullying to tell someone to "fuck off" is it? Oh and the fact that you insinuate stereotypes as insults is a little crude and presumptious considering i do similar activities to her. Goes on permanent record? REALLY? JESUS. Im suprised i got a fucking decent job then after going to university. Whooo boy. Oh and when you quoted "Emo Person" i also said whatever, i looked at the previous comment and saw what others assumed and put "whatever" as a complete disregard to what they and others said. Bullying is when you repeatedly abuse someone for no reason whatsoever to hurt them, make them feel belittled. Dishing out something back in self defence is more or less fine. What happens if your getting attacked, you dont do anything because its "the nice thing to do" You die. The fact that you refer to her asking for help is degrading. She never said ask for help, or help me, she said is it normal? its a simple yes or no answer really. Dont use the word idiot lightly, i could theoretically say you are "bullying" me, as you called me an idiot for voicing an opinion, not very nice huh? And instead of "bullying" others i more implied that she shouldnt care what others think. Another thing, when i said geek, i was referring to myself and how i think my friends would view me. And by the swearing at teachers thing, if someone doesnt bat an eyelid at you, you are in the place the eye does not see, get some attention. Jeeeez. Im sure you can understand why i have this take on things, with the suicide, for that i apologise. However, most of the "IDEAS" i proposed, where simply vague overexaggerative suggestions in a "i dont know what you would do in that situation" attitude. You clearly dont know what "banter" is.

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        • to be honest i thought the exact same as noodle so please dont be mean to them

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