Is it normal that i have an obsessive crush on a teacher

I've tried to tell myself over and over again to not like him, but it is really hard. I need some tips on getting him out of my mind. The funny thing is I like a fellow student also. I guess the teacher kind of serves as a "fantasy". He was extremely flirty and outgoing with me, so it made it hard to not like him in that way.

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  • carelessbitch

    You dont have to get him outta yo mind. Its a perfectly normal and healthy feeling. As long as it stays a fantasy: its illegal for a teacher to date his/her student!

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  • sparrowfeed

    dude, i had several crushes--teachers, professors, TA's. i had an easier time liking these people of authoritative position than my fellow colleagues; i found them more mature, intelligent.. i don't know. it IS weird, but what can you do? lol.

    i'm 20 years and and to be honest, i'm not attracted to a man unless he is at least 25.

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  • SxcSara

    You dont need to get him out your mind. and it doesnt just have to be fantasy. if you want him then tell him how you feel and go for it. i started dating my math teacher. i get so excited when he gets me naked in his classroom at the end of the day

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  • mtnw

    it's easy to get a crush on a teacher. it happens to them all the time, and you aren't the only one they have to deal with in this way. forget about it, as a crush isn't real anyway.

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  • Proudfear

    as long as its only a fantacy its ok, dont try to make it real itll end bad

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  • aceattorneyfan

    how young is he? if he is young ok.

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  • i have a crush on three of mine i got to school because of one just so i can see him i can get him out of my mind.

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  • youwillfindmewaitingforyou

    i had the same problem, i really liked a few of my teachers at secondary school, and i mean really liked. i tried everything and there is no way to get them out of your mind : / it doesn't always serve as a fantasy though when i moved to college i ended upp dating my law teacher. my advise is to choose between the teacher, which is unlikely to work, or the other guy which is much more likely. good luck

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