Is it normal that i have anxiety over being gay?

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I'm a 30 year old gay male who's having a hard time accepting himself. One day I'll accept the fact that I'm gay and the next day I'll be trying to fight it. It's causing me a great deal of stress and I actually have a headache right now as I think about it. I have fears of being socially ridiculed, a fear of aids and even being attacked by others because of my sexuality. I just want peace. What do I do?

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Based on 8 votes (7 yes)
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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago

    ignore the haters
    wear a condom
    carry a weapon

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  • --
    3 years ago

    Nobody cares if you are gay. You will get ridiculed more for being chubby then you will for being a poo pusher.

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    • Resurgam53
      3 years ago

      This statement just shows your ignorance and bigotry. Referring to being gay as being a poo pusher is very insulting to those of us that enjoy same gender sex.

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      • --
        3 years ago

        So is a poo pusher calling a straight person a "breeder". Fact of the matter is, its a fact and people need to toughen up and stop being baby's. Tis whats wrong with the world! Every one is turning into pussy's.

        Now if someone was to say "kill all fags, they are all deviant scum and need to be eliminated" I would be obliged to agree with you sir. Thing is we all get picked on and should not be getting all upset over something so small. I for one will never tip toe over broken egg shells, I'm going to be myself, and walk on by, if that upsets someone then thats their problem.

        I mean, call my a vagina flap spreader and I would shake your hand and shout you a beer!!

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      • bigbudchonga
        3 years ago

        Triggermetimbers

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Yea no one gives a shit. Everyone is so focused on there own lives they probably wouldnf even notice or care

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    3 years ago

    You should join an LGBT pride group, they'll help you accept yourself for it.

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  • bigbudchonga
    3 years ago

    It's not gay if you say no homo after and you don't swallow.

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  • Resurgam53
    3 years ago

    Don’t fight it, just be who you are. Once I accepted the fact that I love cock, I quit worrying about what others think and didn’t try to hide it. I don’t go out and advertise it, but I don’t deny it. Life is too short to have anxiety regarding your sexuality. Enjoy who YOU are!

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Sadly this isn’t uncommon, internalised homophobia is a huge problem. I’d recommend seeing a therapist about it, no-one should have to live with anixiety.

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