Is it normal that i have sexual fantasies about my brother?

I know it's really wrong and I would never actually have sex with my brother, but for some reason I get really turned on by the idea that he has sexual feelings for me. Whenever I read stories about brothers raping/molesting their sisters, I imagine my brother raping/molesting me and I get really wet. I feel really guilty but I can't stop! Do others have these feelings? Is this normal?

please note: I'm 18 and my brother is 25. I'm also a virgin and I have no sexual experience but I've been having these fantasies since I was 15!

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  • Ltown86

    well, society would say it's wrong and abnormal. But, i would say it's not unusual. I imagine you share a great bond being brother and sister. This can create intimate feelings. Which is not abnormal. Is your brother an attractive guy? add those things together it's very understandable. I would not necessarily recommend acting on those feelings, or telling too many people about it. But don't feel like a total freak. I wouldn't mind making you wet if you want. ;)

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  • sparrowfeed

    why is reading about people getting wet making me wet..

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    • free

      i know right.

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      • DK7point0

        You ladies arnt alone, I get hard just reading these stories

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  • I get turned on by seeing people be turned on by other people that are turned on by incest.

    or chocolate.

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  • seven347

    People have fantasies for a reason - it outside the norm - and its not something you are supposed to do. If it is what you are supposed to do, then it wouldnt feel as good. Thats the way sin works
    sin can be in i guess
    If i had sex with my sister i would feel terrible after i did but i know i would like it while doing it. thats something you should think about.

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  • You say you get turned on by the idea that your brother has sexual feelings for you. Does he? Have you talked about it? You should go around with these feelings repressed. Don't let these people get you down with all the negative talk about incest. Incest is natural and can be very enjoyable. I have been having sex with my brother since I was 14 and he 19 (I'm 21 now). Close to what you are with your brother. Have you thought that you have stayed a virgin for your brother? Sweetie, I must tell you that it is the most wonderful thing in the world to have my brother pound me for hours and then feel his cock swell and shoot his cum inside me. You're really missing out.

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    • ZOR69

      Kim, unless you are exaggerating, you have a truly remarkable brother-lover, to be able to pound you for "hours" before he cums. When I was young I could hold out for nearly an hour and thought I was doing pretty good. I have read that the average sex act usually lasts about six minutes. My wife claims that she and her brothers would go at it for about ten to fifteen minutes usually, which is not bad at all compared to the average.

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    • flipflapflop

      I am 18 and have a 20 year old sister. We are extremely close, I can walk in the bathroom when she is having a bath and i wont bother neither of us. But never would we have sexual intercourse, the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Knowing that we grew up together and went through so much stuff together, I think its 100% wrong. You, and other people, might feel differently because you have a bigger age gap but please do not act on it. Despite what some people say they done, you might regret it and it might even break up your family. Please do not do anything.

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      • Sorry we make you sick, sorry you have to say "sexual intercourse". My brother and I have sex and love it. We did it today. He put his cock inside me and fucked me until he came inside me. Get over yourself.

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        • flipflapflop

          Lol yes sexual intercourse, thats what it is. It is fucked up and you thinking its natural its even MORE fucked up. I dont care where your brother\lover sticks his dick. For me, it is incest and sick, I would rather die then having sex with my sister. You are seriously disturbed. Do you tell everybody you have sex with your brother? If its so normal to you Im sure you wouldnt have a problem in saying.

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          • Many of my friends know my brother and I live together and have sex. A few of them also have had sex with their brothers, and a friend of mine and a friend of my brothers have joined us in bed. And if you'd rather die that have sex with your sister you got my vote.

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            • Ezilabeth

              I'm not disgusted that you're brother and sister (okay well kind of...-__-) It's just that I'd understand if a brother and sister were together because they love each other. From what you're saying, it just sounds like lots of sex. Which I find kind of gross... meaningless... you know, a bit slutty...

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            • flipflapflop

              It's wrong, that is all. There is a reason why it's illegal. Also why would anybody care who joins you in bed? I don't mind having sex with 100 people at once, just as long as it is not anybody from my family.

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    • damn ur really a GREAT SISTER!!!

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      • Thanks! What we do seems completely natural.

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        • lilipodsa

          what are you from arkansas or something

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          • or alabama or mississippi or west virginia

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  • missbabe

    i wudent say it normal im 18 my brother is 23 and i wudent even think anything over than my brother who loves me and cares for me as his little sister

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  • Nikki:)

    Ditto

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  • moni18

    this is wrong, dont act upon it, meet new unrelated guys

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    • Junkgal

      I also have the same kind of feelings for my brother but its because I was molested by our father an my brother says there's nothing wrong with that an he don't blame me he blames our father but he calls him cock roach

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  • Hank

    Any girl would like to have her first sexual experience to be something special, and to which she could look back in later years with happy memories. This especially applies to the guy who takes her cherry - her first lover. Forget about your thoughts of him raping you. If you could get him to be your first lover, and do it gently and with care, consider yourself a lucky girl. He could be yearning for you as well.
    Approach the subject gently. Tell him you are ready to lose your virginity, but that you would like to select the right guy to do you the favour with love and gentleness, and that you think he is the best one to do it. Make sure you would not be interrupted so that you can take your time, and make sure you practice safe sex to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
    I was not the first guy my sister made love to, something which she regrets. I lost my virginity to her, something I cherish.

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  • justapit

    its normal, tap it.

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  • sarah_13

    i wish i had a brother my age :(

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  • Comm0nSense

    finally a brother fantasy! make it more hot tho

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  • bubbanickels

    it is normal im a guy and i want to do my sister im sure he feels the same way

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  • pavltheory

    im 49 my sis 43.
    I have allowed myself to feel desire.
    It doesn't feel wrong
    I have absolutely mind blowing orgasms thinking of her.she has sent me pics....

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  • Jpp

    I would just have sex with him u will love it trust me. me and my sis do it and its great i was her fist and she was mine she13me 15 the 1st time we did

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  • k-bononos

    honey im sorry to say this but that's not normal... there's a reason why he's your brother and not your boyfriend...

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  • billyboy

    I am continually amazed at how people always seem to want to beat themselves up over their fantasies, or worry that they are sick or evil for having them. Why not be just as upset for watching violent TV shows or movies? I mean, they are not real. They are not something you necessarily want to actually do. And even if you do, for heavens sake, it's your own business. Be nice to yourself. Not too many other peple will. SO it is up to YOU to treat yourself good. Don't get all strung out over dreams and fantasies. They are nothing. Just enjoy it.

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  • masloco

    Its normal to have all these crazy thoughts we read on here but its when you start acting on them is when you cross the line of it being a problem or issue.

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  • lostsurfer

    idk if it normal and i wouldnt call it strange but i had a girlfriend that said she use to have dreams about her brother and her doing um *cough* but hey at least your not alone in it right

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  • marqetta

    Perhaps you just need to be around more boys. Are when you look at him you see your self and get turn on.

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  • chillypenguin

    just becareful with him being 7 years older than you he might tell his mates just think twice before saying any thing

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  • artFreak

    I would say it's abnormal to actually want to have sex with your brother, but since u don't it's ok.. It happens to a lot of people..

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  • crazzychris

    Do yourself a favor pull your .brothers cock out of his pants.one night when he's asleep and start to suck on it and touch it and then slide his cock slowly onto your vagina and ride him slow.until you both climax and then fall asleep next to him so you are.there when he wakes up

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  • taboo85

    is it normal to really get turned on by incest?

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  • you need to have sex with a guy (NOT YOUR BROTHER) and get out of the house more,
    TAKE MY ADVICE DARL.

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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    yea this is normal, it happens quite alot believe it or not, it's just natural animal instinct.
    Except animals don't care if they fuck their mum, brother, sister or aunty, so they just do it lol instead of keeping it a fantasy. which i think you should do, because it won't turn out pretty if your brother finds out.
    don't mind these other people btw, they're just close minded and don't understand that it's natural

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    • flipflapflop

      It is nothing to do with close mindedness, you saying that is pretty ignorant of you. It is wrong for most human beings because their brother/sister is someone they grew up with and known all their lives and see them as someone you unconditionally love and could never have sex with. It all depends on the relationship (if any) you have with your brother/sister. We are RATIONAL animals, therefore we compare circumstances and distinguish right from wrong.

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  • patrickbatemenlover

    holy shit... Its not normal but don't feel like a freak or anything. Im sure there are many out there who are confused and have sexual fantasies about the brothers, cousins, parents, uncles...

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  • Proudfear

    feelings are normal as long as u dont act on them which i recomend u dont besides being wrong and disgusting itll make you less attractive in the minds of say a future boyfriend

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  • em0kity808909

    ts normal but just do anything like get prego but if he askes you go for it!

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  • L.B.

    ja i think its pritty normal... to do it to.. even though i wouldnt do it eather...

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  • pfffft

    you can't help you subconcious mind, it's out of your controll. the most 'normal' people have dreams all the time about completely twisted stuff. but just make sure it is only in this subconcious uncontrolled state that any thoughts about him have cropped up. if it's you choosing to fantasise i'd say see a psych

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  • tiredatayoungage

    Yea, if you've been having them since you were 15..you need to let that go. I think it's becuase you are probably very curious about sex, but don't do anything with you blood brother nothing good will come from that situation and if you slip and get pregnant your baby will look like those things from the wrong turn movie!! You should just find a real boyfriend! if not tell a doctor and get help before that gets out of hand and you do something you may regret..

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  • Bare_back;)

    I'm the same way about my half sister

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  • hnbout

    This is perfectly NORMAL. You've been having these fantacies for a reason... You Want It! Flirt with your brother; talk to him about your feelings - and let him take your virginity. A sex partner for life. My sister took my virginity, and we still have it when we can. Good luck, and Go For It!

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  • xavier19

    It isn't human nature to give in to lust. What separates us from animals is the ability to reason, be governed by a code of ethics and morality. Think about what one of the worst expletives in any culture is motherf*****. Incest is natural if you want to call yourself a beast...

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  • em0kity808909

    omfg ever heard of human nature?!

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  • y007steph

    This is a rare urge but even then it is normal.
    Do not feel guilty because of this, even treat it with some humor and joy. Your hormones and developing body is playing with you. So you may also play with this urge.

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  • lovelyfeathers818

    ok no offense, but that's sick.

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  • LiamHale

    That's disturbing. Like, really. Ew.

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  • HardcoreGuy

    Omg, the feeling is so wrong , the fantasy itself is so sick, the whole thing is so abnormal, u said ur a virgin, and u read brother raping stories? Stop reading that kind of sick stories, those r sick, plus the authors r sicker they need a shrink urgently, atleast, fantasize a foreign person not ur brother, i dont know why some people r defending ur "problem" ! , i think because the suffer from it too!

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  • brad14h

    Weird

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  • Mike34

    I was in NYC for a Summer staying with one sister, when my other sister came over to stay for a week. She stayed in the apt in the lower east side and my other sister stayed with her BF for the week.

    One night we both were at home had a good few beers and smoked a joint. It was my first time being stoned and we started talking about sex. She said she was really horny but felt guilty because I was younger. I was incredibly aroused and was wearing shorts so there was no hiding it. We went for it and a week of non- stop sex of every type. She even introduced me to sex with men. To this day there has never been a Horner moment than her watching me give head to another guy. True story.

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  • Jocd

    I've never had sex woth my sister. But when i was young she caught me wearing her panties and lingerie and she liked it. After we would drink and party together and she loved to dress me up and put makeup and a wig on me she would let me lick her ass and pussy and suck her tits and she would give me blow jobs and fuck my ass with a strap on. I became her sissy slave. Recently I've started hrt. She said she is gonna pay for my breast implants.

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  • Kath48

    This happens.
    Young kids.
    Usually begins with siblings close in age who get curious. Looking then touching. Perhaps then they find it arousing. This can then develop into mutual masturbation and on from there.
    As regards adult relationships; where a brother and sister have been close for many years a bond, even love, can develop between them.
    If they find themselves thrown together and circumstances permit a sexual encounter can feel natural as they are drawn together.
    The closness of the genes may even help them come together.
    As to wheather its right or wrong they have to decide what is right for them.
    It is a special feeling for a sister to feel her brother enter her.
    A big decision.

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  • ummmmmMETOO

    and BTW, if you allow yourself to indulge in this fantasy long enough, eventually you will start to see it as "normal", regardless of how you see it to begin with. see it as normal till you tell someone about it, that is.

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  • ummmmmMETOO

    Ok let me throw in an additional piece of fucked up: is it any different if you are adopted? seems to lessen the guilt, not being blood related. Not that its happened, it hasnt, but the thought has.

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  • GA25FF

    Pretty cooool.

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  • XxBlackSheepxX

    HAHA!! Apparently this site is very popular in Alabama!!

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  • andrewhill

    Your feelings are normal or natural. Were you abused as a child?

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    • littleasiangirl

      no

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  • Gfrigo

    ILL...that's fucking gross...

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  • timmy420

    Ewwww incest

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  • No

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  • marianoisawesome

    um okay maybe if u werent fat....... yeah

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  • gako

    Ew this is so fucking nasty. Like seriously I am out of words. You need serious help actually no suggest hanging yourself in shame.

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