Is it normal that i haven't had my first kiss yet and i'm almost 19?

As if it isn't obvious, I haven't had a boyfriend either, but the kiss worries me the most.

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  • ComTlancy

    Well we're in the same boat here. I recently turned 18 and I have yet to even go on a date with a girl. I virtually have no experience but it doesn't worry me at all.

    Just focus on other things right now and enjoy life as much as possible. When people see that you love life they'll want to be part of your happiness. You might even get a guy to ask you out.

    Though a bi-product of me loving life has made me a little eccentric.

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  • kismetie

    I'm 19 going on 20 and I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend either. It's normal and it's also normal that you worry, even though there isn't much to worry about. There's still plenty of time for kissing and boyfriends. But I feel were you're coming from.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Normal.

    Just because everyone else you know is dropping down like hoes doesn't mean you have to act like them.

    It's perfectly OK to wait for something good.

    it's kinda like cooking. One of my college classmates said he hated quick and easy meals... he'd rather eat food that tasted better, even if it meant a longer wait.

    Love isn't much different. Sometimes waiting for it to develop and blossom makes it mean much more than just opening your mouth (or legs) for just anyone who wants a quick taste.

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  • Lib3rtine

    I am 22, only just having my first boyfriend, and kiss at this age, so I think yes totally normal!

    things take time, people treat you like you are strange, simply because you haven't kissed/sex/boyfriend etc at the "right" age

    everyone's different, and when it happens it happens :)

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  • lisac1919

    i had my first kiss at 18 with a random drunk araab dude at a bar...had a couple other drunken wet kisses since then (now im 20) but i dont really count those because they were gross and didnt mean anything. so i would say ive 'never been kissed' either

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  • PutoV

    It's normal to not have your first kiss yet. Especially if you are waiting for someone who will appreciate it

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  • JD4z

    It may not be the "usual", but that definitely does not mean it isn't normal! I didn't have my first kiss until I was 20 (besides a quick peck on the check...which didn't even happen until I was 18). I remember I used to be SO embarassed about it, seeing as most of my friends had already done it. But now I'm really glad that I waited, because I got to do it with someone I really cared about (as opposed to some drunk person at a party, like most of my friends had). I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let yourself worry about it! It'll happen when it's supposed to happen! I promise!

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Not normal. People do this at 12 or so nowadays. I was a late bloomer myself and not out of choice.

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  • Caity21Lifee

    Normal.

    You only have your first kiss once.

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  • rclay1992

    I am a 19 year old guy and the only thing im worried about is dieing a virgin

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  • curiousmelon

    relax..it will happen.we've all been there.

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  • littlelulu1999

    No biggie...it will happen when it happens...

    I had my first kiss at 18...

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  • thecheese

    Chill out girl scout, I had my first kiss at 6 with a girl I knew. But that didn't count. My real first kiss was at 21. You have lots of time to find someone.

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  • zchristian

    Im 18 i have only had one girlfriend but that ended rather quickly im not worried...

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  • Clickit

    Yes it is normal. I like Mando's idea but that could end bad...or great, never know. If you have a guy friend just ask them for a favor...I would do that for any of my girl friends.

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