Is it normal that i just refuse to work?
I met my husband almost 5 years ago and we dated for 4 years and then got married a little over a year ago. Now my parents are very conservative, my father is a doctor and my mom is a home maker. Now growing up this is what I observed and my mom didnt work (she sure spent the money like it was her job lol). Now I feel I shouldnt have to work and the man should go out and provide everything that we need in terms of "bringing home the bacon" and just about everything else as well. I am not saying he needs to be a doctor or anything, but he certainly needs to get off his lazy ass and at least work 2 or 3 jobs if we need the extra money. I really dont see the problem with working from 9-5 and then coming home to go to another night job from say 6-12 at night or something. Its certainly not cheap getting my hair done 4-5 days a week or the manicures that I have pay just to set up a special appointment for. I mean what does he think? Its easy to do this all day??? Some days I have to wake up as early as 10 am. Not to mention the credit card bills I rack up every month as well. Last month's was over $10K. Besides the housekeeper and chef alone run at least $1,000 a week, sometimes more even.
Is it normal he wont get a third job even though I nag him incessantly about doing so and have even been spending MORE money to motivate him to do it.